Best Way To Handle A Breakup - 5 Things Men Should Avoid
It feels sad, but you want to move on, and if possible, you want to rebuild your relationship with her.
If you still love her, why not? You can always get her back to you if you want.
But, if you are doing things that will only reinforce her decision to left you, it will create even more mess in your life.
You might already feel devastated right now, but it is important for you to stick to do only what's good for your relationship.
Here are 5 things men should avoid to do after the breakup: 1.
Telling everyone that she is not good for you Seriously, do you want to ruin her reputation in front of everyone that you know? Do you want to tell her friends that you despise her and she is no good for you at all? What if the words get spread and reach her? If you go all mouthful about your breakup, you will end up pushing her even farther away from you.
2.
Being alone and depressed This is what most men do after their breakup, and it is definitely not something that you have to do at all.
Getting lonely and depressed all the time is not good for your mental health.
It won't build a good impression for her as well.
So, be sure to set more schedule for you to go out and party with your friends.
Cheer yourself up! 3.
Getting crazy and obsessed over your ex Don't do creepy things that will make her to be afraid of you.
Don't stalk her.
Don't try to give unnecessary comments on her social media pages.
Just don't get crazy and obsessed over your ex girlfriend because there are things that are worth even more for your passion.
In fact, when you have broken up with her, you have to abandon her completely.
That's the right thing to do.
4.
Bombard her with text messages and calls What? You are calling her day and night, although you always go to her voice mail.
You keep sending texts after texts although you never get a single reply from her.
Why all the seriousness? Why do you need to embarrass yourself even more by doing these things? Just save your cellphone bills for something else more worthwhile.
5.
Getting angry at her Why should you get angry at her? After all, the reason for her to end the relationship might be because you are so abusive toward her.
You keep getting angry at her over small things.
You don't have a sense of humor.
So, why do you get angry at her for breaking you up? Just keep yourself calm and try to relax your mind.