Most of us have experienced a relationship break up one way or the other in life.
A break up is not an experience one wishes to have but it happens in most cases.
If a relationship was good most of the time people desire to get their ex back.
Otherwise if the relationship wasn't healthy then a break up should be considered as great decision to pursue.
Most relationships follow a predictable pattern in life.
At first when two people in a relationship meet they enjoy every bit of moment experienced and try to hide any bad habit one might have.
As time goes on you adjust to one another and feel comfort being in the relationship, afterward things start to heat up and if no one tries to regulate his or her habits then a break up is more than easily going to occur.
The test of any relationship is usually when people get to familiarize with themselves and see how are they going to handle it once they truly and deeply understand each other.
If they both can live with each other and solve the arguments rationally then a break up can be avoided and the relationship can be considered as a healthy one.
Otherwise if a break up results there are ways to ensure that you get back with your ex.
Lets consider some 4 handy tips: One is to say sorry and forgive each other.
Being able to confess one's mistake and say sorry is the first best way to start getting your ex back.
Knowing exactly what to apologize for is of the essence.
If still an argument results, the best way is to listen.
You never know maybe that's all your ex wanted you to do.
Being defensive only shows immaturity and insecurity.
Instead grow up and show that you can be a real human being and listen to reasons.
Second is to talk things through.
During the relationship some habits that used to bore or hated by each one in a relationship don't get to be talked about and these are the ones that could necessary lead to a break up.
If a break up occurs having the time to talk things through objectively will help get back with your ex.
You should find a proper time and place to talk things through and if you can't argue positively with one another, then its better to talk together with an expert on the ground and help you rationalize things through.
Third is give it some space.
In a break up most of the time one person feels more hurt than the other.
The one who is hurt and still wants to get back with the ex, could end up doing a lot of crazy things.
But if you want that, it doesn't also mean that your ex wants that too.
So instead of disturbing him or her, just be strong and give your ex some space.
Give him or her the gift of missing you with time.
Four is improve your life.
Showing your ex that you have changed is a great sign that will make your ex want to get back with you.
Desperation won't make you get back with your ex.
Instead find a positive thing to do after a break up and enjoy yourself.
If after sometime your ex tries to find you either through the phone or email, show to them that your busy and you have a great life going on.
This will make your ex more curious and increase the chances of getting back with you greatly.
A break up is not an experience one wishes to have but it happens in most cases.
If a relationship was good most of the time people desire to get their ex back.
Otherwise if the relationship wasn't healthy then a break up should be considered as great decision to pursue.
Most relationships follow a predictable pattern in life.
At first when two people in a relationship meet they enjoy every bit of moment experienced and try to hide any bad habit one might have.
As time goes on you adjust to one another and feel comfort being in the relationship, afterward things start to heat up and if no one tries to regulate his or her habits then a break up is more than easily going to occur.
The test of any relationship is usually when people get to familiarize with themselves and see how are they going to handle it once they truly and deeply understand each other.
If they both can live with each other and solve the arguments rationally then a break up can be avoided and the relationship can be considered as a healthy one.
Otherwise if a break up results there are ways to ensure that you get back with your ex.
Lets consider some 4 handy tips: One is to say sorry and forgive each other.
Being able to confess one's mistake and say sorry is the first best way to start getting your ex back.
Knowing exactly what to apologize for is of the essence.
If still an argument results, the best way is to listen.
You never know maybe that's all your ex wanted you to do.
Being defensive only shows immaturity and insecurity.
Instead grow up and show that you can be a real human being and listen to reasons.
Second is to talk things through.
During the relationship some habits that used to bore or hated by each one in a relationship don't get to be talked about and these are the ones that could necessary lead to a break up.
If a break up occurs having the time to talk things through objectively will help get back with your ex.
You should find a proper time and place to talk things through and if you can't argue positively with one another, then its better to talk together with an expert on the ground and help you rationalize things through.
Third is give it some space.
In a break up most of the time one person feels more hurt than the other.
The one who is hurt and still wants to get back with the ex, could end up doing a lot of crazy things.
But if you want that, it doesn't also mean that your ex wants that too.
So instead of disturbing him or her, just be strong and give your ex some space.
Give him or her the gift of missing you with time.
Four is improve your life.
Showing your ex that you have changed is a great sign that will make your ex want to get back with you.
Desperation won't make you get back with your ex.
Instead find a positive thing to do after a break up and enjoy yourself.
If after sometime your ex tries to find you either through the phone or email, show to them that your busy and you have a great life going on.
This will make your ex more curious and increase the chances of getting back with you greatly.