The process of getting back your ex could be easy or tough, depending on the way you go about it.
Strange enough, it can be both - a dream as well as a nightmare.
This is usually true if you were on a receiving end of the rejection and break up.
In spite of this, if you still want to make up with your ex, then you need the will to work on your relationship no matter the difficulties and set-backs.
Below are some tips you can take to make up with your ex.
Good luck! 1.
) Under The Microscope - Firstly, as described in the movie "Why Did I Get Married?" in a situation like this, you have to make a list of the rights and wrongs in your relationship.
If the wrongs out-weigh the right, then there is a problem for you to fix.
When you have listed them out and carefully examined them, then you start to address them accordingly.
2.
) Perk Her Interest Up - When there is any degree of change experienced in you, whether in character or looks, there is usually a growing concern in your partner.
When this happens you ex would become a little more interested in the possibility of getting back together.
Carefully analyze and de-junk your life.
You started to do something that got her disgusted - it is better you stop it now! There should be no room for personal interest in a relationship.
It shouldn't be just "my interest" but "our interest".
For a relationship to strive, a lot of sacrifices are involved.
When you have carefully de-junked your life, your ex will certainly be attracted by the changes and a makeup will be likely.
3.
) Quit Arguing - Avoid arguing when you are with your ex.
Spend time meditating and reminiscing of the past together.
When you meet with your ex, you are trying to tell your ex that you want change.
When arguments come in, it will really piss your ex off and guess what would happen next? You would have blown away your chances of making up with your ex.
4.
) Walk the Talk - It is not always enough to say things you know you can't do.
Practice what you preach.
You want your ex to know that you have stopped keeping late nights - then truly stop keeping late nights.
Be the change you want to see in your relationship.
Give up things you know he/she doesn't like.
This is necessarily because it has a long term affect, not just for the immediate problem at hand but you would be better off without those junks.
Be an improved version of yourself and do not pretend to the one that knows every bit of you.
Be sincere now you that you want a make up with your ex.
You want a change? Then be the change.
Strange enough, it can be both - a dream as well as a nightmare.
This is usually true if you were on a receiving end of the rejection and break up.
In spite of this, if you still want to make up with your ex, then you need the will to work on your relationship no matter the difficulties and set-backs.
Below are some tips you can take to make up with your ex.
Good luck! 1.
) Under The Microscope - Firstly, as described in the movie "Why Did I Get Married?" in a situation like this, you have to make a list of the rights and wrongs in your relationship.
If the wrongs out-weigh the right, then there is a problem for you to fix.
When you have listed them out and carefully examined them, then you start to address them accordingly.
2.
) Perk Her Interest Up - When there is any degree of change experienced in you, whether in character or looks, there is usually a growing concern in your partner.
When this happens you ex would become a little more interested in the possibility of getting back together.
Carefully analyze and de-junk your life.
You started to do something that got her disgusted - it is better you stop it now! There should be no room for personal interest in a relationship.
It shouldn't be just "my interest" but "our interest".
For a relationship to strive, a lot of sacrifices are involved.
When you have carefully de-junked your life, your ex will certainly be attracted by the changes and a makeup will be likely.
3.
) Quit Arguing - Avoid arguing when you are with your ex.
Spend time meditating and reminiscing of the past together.
When you meet with your ex, you are trying to tell your ex that you want change.
When arguments come in, it will really piss your ex off and guess what would happen next? You would have blown away your chances of making up with your ex.
4.
) Walk the Talk - It is not always enough to say things you know you can't do.
Practice what you preach.
You want your ex to know that you have stopped keeping late nights - then truly stop keeping late nights.
Be the change you want to see in your relationship.
Give up things you know he/she doesn't like.
This is necessarily because it has a long term affect, not just for the immediate problem at hand but you would be better off without those junks.
Be an improved version of yourself and do not pretend to the one that knows every bit of you.
Be sincere now you that you want a make up with your ex.
You want a change? Then be the change.