How many of you have ever got together with their partner after they have broken up, for at least one time? Well, I guess that the answer is not so many.
And here is the question: why is this happening? What is the problem with the couples after they get back together? The answer is simple: because fear interferes.
The fear of losing the partner is driving us crazy, and that is because we will always ask ourselves the classic question "What if...
?".
What if he dumps me again? What if he can't fall in love with me again? What if I get bored of him? Women think too much.
The proper advice for them is this: ladies, let the things happen and don't be so frightened of what might come.
A French saying is like this: "Que sera, sera".
In English, this can be translated like: "What will happen, will happen".
Therefore ladies, live your life at max! As concerning the primary question, the answer is yes, but with one condition: to let the fears behind and try to make your relationship the best relationship that has ever been.
Even if there might be some problems - whether it is your fault or not-, you and your boyfriend should stick together.
People usually need somebody to speak/make love/argue/hang on with, and therefore, even if there might have been some problems between you and your partner, you should get back together.
Even if your boyfriend might have broken up the relation with you, it does make sense to make him come back to you.
If you know what is good for you, and you also see a future near your (ex) boyfriend, then you should fight to get him back.
As long as you have never done something unforgivable to him, the chances that you might get back together are quite big.
Though, don't think that if you get back with him, you will escape from all the problems.
On contrary, there will be a lot of work to do.
And if you need a motivation in order to stick together, just keep in mind the common future with him, future that you have always wanted: a family, maybe some kids, picnics with all the family, holidays together and so on.
So ladies, if you know what is good for you, then you should go out there and get back to you your ex boyfriend.
Not tomorrow, not next week! Right now!
And here is the question: why is this happening? What is the problem with the couples after they get back together? The answer is simple: because fear interferes.
The fear of losing the partner is driving us crazy, and that is because we will always ask ourselves the classic question "What if...
?".
What if he dumps me again? What if he can't fall in love with me again? What if I get bored of him? Women think too much.
The proper advice for them is this: ladies, let the things happen and don't be so frightened of what might come.
A French saying is like this: "Que sera, sera".
In English, this can be translated like: "What will happen, will happen".
Therefore ladies, live your life at max! As concerning the primary question, the answer is yes, but with one condition: to let the fears behind and try to make your relationship the best relationship that has ever been.
Even if there might be some problems - whether it is your fault or not-, you and your boyfriend should stick together.
People usually need somebody to speak/make love/argue/hang on with, and therefore, even if there might have been some problems between you and your partner, you should get back together.
Even if your boyfriend might have broken up the relation with you, it does make sense to make him come back to you.
If you know what is good for you, and you also see a future near your (ex) boyfriend, then you should fight to get him back.
As long as you have never done something unforgivable to him, the chances that you might get back together are quite big.
Though, don't think that if you get back with him, you will escape from all the problems.
On contrary, there will be a lot of work to do.
And if you need a motivation in order to stick together, just keep in mind the common future with him, future that you have always wanted: a family, maybe some kids, picnics with all the family, holidays together and so on.
So ladies, if you know what is good for you, then you should go out there and get back to you your ex boyfriend.
Not tomorrow, not next week! Right now!