3 Very Effective Tips On How To Get Back Together With An Ex Lover
However, you don't want to obsess about getting back with you ex in such that you start to get depressed... and then you start calling and texting your ex to beg them to come back to you. I can tell you right now... doing that will virtually guarantee that you will never get back together with your ex and you will feel terrible about how you humiliated yourself... and at the same time, you pushed your ex even further away from you.
Not a very good idea... but I have a better way for you... a plan! So today I'm going to give you 3 very effective tips how to get back together with ex lover...
And these tips may sound a little out-of-the-box to you... but as I will explain, they are very effective methods that have been proven to work in the real world. So... which is better, staying home and feel all depressed about the break up or following a plan of action that increases the odds of your ex getting back together with you?
That's what I thought! :)
Here we go...
How to Get Back Together with Ex Effective Tip #1
You need to accept the idea that you guys broke up. And tell that to your ex... that you are perfectly fine with the breakup and you are going to move on. Now there was a little "trick" in this method. A dirty trick if you will... you see, you are taking advantage of human nature and allowing calmness to settle in when you say that the breakup was OK with you.
You are relieving the stress and tension of the situation in your ex's mind... not only that, you are giving your ex the gift of thinking about the relationship and if they realize that they still love you, I'm pretty sure they will find a way to get back together with you.
How to Get Back Together with Ex Effective Tip #2
You are going to cut communication off with your ex. Yes, you heard me right. But there is a method in my madness... you see, this is another way to give your ex some thinking time.
And cutting off communication is a way to signal to your ex that you are moving on and are just doing fine... even though your stomach might be churning and you feel panicky about this... you have a choice, push your ex further away by being needy or pull them closer by being a little mysterious.
Up to you...
How to Get Back Together with Ex Effective Tip #3
Put together a plan of action for the next time you do get together. And the advantage of the first two tips is that you are getting some time to create this plan... instead of worrying and getting depressed... Like they say, those who do get the worm and those who don't get nothing... so start working on your plan.
Like where to meet, when to meet and what you will say when you do meet. And doing so, you can also make a determination whether or not your ex still loves you and whether there is any chance of getting back together again.
In conclusion... I want you to follow all three of these tips. Do not skip any of them! You will be creating a little space and time for your ex to start thinking about you and the relationship. And if there is something still there, your ex will find a way to get back in touch with you.
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