Had a tough breakup and now you're asking how do I get my man back? If he did the dumping, then the situation is more challenging - but not impossible.
Here are a few tips that will help you win back his affections.
• Don't ever grovel or plead for him to take you back.
Those actions scream pathetic and desperation.
Make him remember you as someone with dignity and not as a person who's lost without him.
There's no need to boost his ego and make him believe he can have you back anytime.
You wouldn't be a challenge to him then, and if you're not a challenge he definitely wouldn't want you back.
• He says he wants his personal space, then give him his personal space.
In fact, don't call him or send him emails and text messages.
Don't be afraid of losing for a while, if he gets the taste of not having you in his life, then he'll know what he's missing.
If you've been a wonderful girlfriend and this was all just a misunderstanding, then he'll regret leaving you.
So make him miss you and let him sort out his thoughts.
• No one wants to be used, so don't go telling him you'll do whatever he wants if he would only take you back.
That won't win his affections, but it might make him feel dominant and smug.
Do you really want to be at his beck and call just so you can say you're back together? Of course not, so when you do get back together, make sure it's nothing less than love.
• Don't let your anger or any negative emotions get the better of you.
If you lash out at him and point out all the reasons he's a terrible boyfriend, then it will only make him more determined to leave you.
Wallowing in self-pity won't do you any good either.
You can't expect anyone - much less your ex - fall in love with you again if you're spending your days crying and moping around.
• You can't win back his affections by playing games.
Jealousy is not your friend at this moment, so if you're trying to turn him into a green-eyed monster by being seen with other men, forget it.
What if he gets the impression that you've really moved on, and he moves on as well? That will only add up your misery.
• Still want to know how do I get my man back if he dumped me? When you talk to your ex or see him, try to project calmness and confidence.
Avoid looking like you're still recovering from a bad breakup.
If you look great and you act like nothing's out of the ordinary, then that will impress him.
He'll realize the mistake he made in letting you go.
Here are a few tips that will help you win back his affections.
• Don't ever grovel or plead for him to take you back.
Those actions scream pathetic and desperation.
Make him remember you as someone with dignity and not as a person who's lost without him.
There's no need to boost his ego and make him believe he can have you back anytime.
You wouldn't be a challenge to him then, and if you're not a challenge he definitely wouldn't want you back.
• He says he wants his personal space, then give him his personal space.
In fact, don't call him or send him emails and text messages.
Don't be afraid of losing for a while, if he gets the taste of not having you in his life, then he'll know what he's missing.
If you've been a wonderful girlfriend and this was all just a misunderstanding, then he'll regret leaving you.
So make him miss you and let him sort out his thoughts.
• No one wants to be used, so don't go telling him you'll do whatever he wants if he would only take you back.
That won't win his affections, but it might make him feel dominant and smug.
Do you really want to be at his beck and call just so you can say you're back together? Of course not, so when you do get back together, make sure it's nothing less than love.
• Don't let your anger or any negative emotions get the better of you.
If you lash out at him and point out all the reasons he's a terrible boyfriend, then it will only make him more determined to leave you.
Wallowing in self-pity won't do you any good either.
You can't expect anyone - much less your ex - fall in love with you again if you're spending your days crying and moping around.
• You can't win back his affections by playing games.
Jealousy is not your friend at this moment, so if you're trying to turn him into a green-eyed monster by being seen with other men, forget it.
What if he gets the impression that you've really moved on, and he moves on as well? That will only add up your misery.
• Still want to know how do I get my man back if he dumped me? When you talk to your ex or see him, try to project calmness and confidence.
Avoid looking like you're still recovering from a bad breakup.
If you look great and you act like nothing's out of the ordinary, then that will impress him.
He'll realize the mistake he made in letting you go.