Getting back with an ex...hmmmm... this is what goes on in the minds of hundreds of thousands in not millions of people in love, including me and this is my story. After my ex broke up with me, I was shattered, broken, depressed, angry, resentful, and in a lot of pain. What I did was to keep calling my ex and telling him how much I loved him, how much I cannot live without him and begging him to take me back. When he did not answer my calls, I left messages of the same nature.

This went on for quite sometime until I discovered that I was making a big mistake. After learning what I needed to do, I wrote a short handwritten letter saying that I have not been acting rationally the past few days but I now realize that the breakup is good and it is the best thing for both of us. I showed a sense of peace and detachment from the breakup. It was really hard because of my emotions but I had to do it for my goal which is to get him back.

My moves gave my ex a sense of loss and rejection, plus curiosity which made him more open to seeing me and talking with me. This led to better conversations, dates, long phone calls and eventually to us getting back together which really made me happy.

Human nature tells us to do what I did first which is basically terrorizing him with phone calls and being a nagger and beggar. Now we know this is wrong, you have to agree with the breakup, agree with your ex and show calm and inner peace even if you are crying inside. This is the first step, then send the letter and everything will work out.

Love is very powerful and it can break us or make us crazy, but on the other hand, it feels sooooooo good. Love lets you feel undescribable happiness, peace, and contentment.

Learned anything from my story? Im sure you would like to see some videos and get a step by step plan on getting back with an ex.