Avoid sex until...
Sorry girls, you must refrain from having sex until he's crazy for you.
Not until he tells you he likes you, but until his behaviour tells you over and over that he's crazy for you.
If in doubt, he's not crazy for you.
If you have sex before he reaches this emotional stage, he'll never become enamoured with you.
A man or guy needs much longer to truly be enamoured with a woman or girl, and you need to go at his pace, not yours.
Don't force him but tease him instead As mentioned above, you will probably have deep feelings for him much earlier than he will for you.
This is how men are.
So, you need to go at his pace.
Don't force the hand but 'cajole' him into becoming besotted with you.
You do this by creating a deep connection whilst adopting the law of scarcity (don't be available all the time, be busy with your own interests and become his best friend first).
He will feel a lot for you soon enough but he needs to work through his feelings.
If you push the issue through your behaviour or your discourse, he'll just become afraid and back off.
Become his Dream and Fantasy A man longs for a woman who will make him fantasize about her, dream about her and so on.
You need to do this if you want to achieve true love from him.
So, besides the steps indicated above, you need to add a bit of mystery about yourself.
If you let it all out, past and present, he'll become bored with you.