- 1). Nagging is an unpleasant feeling both for the one who is nagging and the one who is being nagged. If you have a partner whom you are nagging with and if you care about the them this behavior must end.
- 2). Your partner throws their clothes on the floor and leaves them there. You constantly complain while picking his clothes up from the floor than you are the nagger.
- 3). Instead of continuing with this behavior ask your partner nicely to pick up his clothes. Another suggestion would be to walk over the clothes and act as if though you tripped(make sure they can see this). Again in a calm tone suggest if they can move the clothing that was left on the floor due to the dangers. Most importantly do not pick up the clothes. You are not nagging.
- 4). Your partner showers or bathes and never cleans the tub afterwards. Therefore when it is your time you must enter a dirty tub. Instead of nagging about the dirty tub In a calm tone say "honey, can you please clean the tub"? Your partner will listen because it isn't the usual nagging he/her is used to.
- 5). Another suggestion would be that before your partner showers sprinkle a cleaner such as Ajax or Comet into the tub and act as if though you forgot to clean the tub. Do this is a calm way by saying "Gosh I forgot to scrub the tub"! Can you wash it out for me honey? (do this right after you shower so that it looks like you really forgot)
- 6). Again the nagging has stopped and communication is instilled instead. When your partner picks up their clothing or scrubs the tub thank them. For instance do not be sarcastic by saying things such as "thanks but it's about time"! Instead say 'Honey thank you for picking up your clothes.
- 7). The nagging in the relationship should end with the both of you being able to communicate with each other instead. As I said earlier this will take time, but do not give up.
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