If you desire to rebuild a broken relationship you must use the methods that are proven to work.
There is some really bad advice floating around out there with no proof that they work.
The majority of it is simply passed around and has been around for decades, maybe even centuries.
However, if it worked it seems to me that there wouldn't be so many broken relationships around.
The problem with most of the methods to rebuild a broken relationship we hear about everyday is that the approach is all wrong.
What I mean by that is that they don't appeal to the deep needs of the person we are trying to reconcile with.
They are more superficial in nature.
Let me give you an example.
One of the most over-used phrases is "I really miss you.
" That statement is all about you, not them.
Think about it.
What does that statement actually do for the other person? To be blunt, not much.
It's not that it's a bad thing but it is in no way good ammo for your battle plan to try and rebuild a broken relationship.
You need to put the attention on your significant other rather than yourself.
Here's another one.
The old faithful "I love you.
" Again it's about how YOU feel.
On top of that they've heard you say it many times before and now your relationship is in disrepair.
For them it probably doesn't hold much water.
Why not switch the focus to them.
They want and need to know how getting back with you will be fulfilling for them.
The most basic instinct we all possess is survival and self-interest.
So basically if I feel my survival is compromised by my ex then I will steer clear.
On the other hand, if I feel that it is in my best interest and will enhance my survival instincts then I will most definitely dance with the idea of getting back with them.
Understand? The best thing you can do is to forget everything you think you know about how to rebuild a broken relationship and learn the proven methods that actually work.
The quicker you can learn to put the focus on your ex and how they will benefit, the quicker you can rebuild your broken relationship.
There is some really bad advice floating around out there with no proof that they work.
The majority of it is simply passed around and has been around for decades, maybe even centuries.
However, if it worked it seems to me that there wouldn't be so many broken relationships around.
The problem with most of the methods to rebuild a broken relationship we hear about everyday is that the approach is all wrong.
What I mean by that is that they don't appeal to the deep needs of the person we are trying to reconcile with.
They are more superficial in nature.
Let me give you an example.
One of the most over-used phrases is "I really miss you.
" That statement is all about you, not them.
Think about it.
What does that statement actually do for the other person? To be blunt, not much.
It's not that it's a bad thing but it is in no way good ammo for your battle plan to try and rebuild a broken relationship.
You need to put the attention on your significant other rather than yourself.
Here's another one.
The old faithful "I love you.
" Again it's about how YOU feel.
On top of that they've heard you say it many times before and now your relationship is in disrepair.
For them it probably doesn't hold much water.
Why not switch the focus to them.
They want and need to know how getting back with you will be fulfilling for them.
The most basic instinct we all possess is survival and self-interest.
So basically if I feel my survival is compromised by my ex then I will steer clear.
On the other hand, if I feel that it is in my best interest and will enhance my survival instincts then I will most definitely dance with the idea of getting back with them.
Understand? The best thing you can do is to forget everything you think you know about how to rebuild a broken relationship and learn the proven methods that actually work.
The quicker you can learn to put the focus on your ex and how they will benefit, the quicker you can rebuild your broken relationship.