If understanding men is an important issue to you, then this principle might help.
I'm going to talk about how my now wife and I actually started dating in the first place.
This is actually a universal law that works all over the world, in any culture.
It even works in business.
You probably will have used it before, maybe by accident.
Now, you will learn how to use it properly to make your man adore you.
Let's start from the very beginning.
This is how my girlfriend got me to commit to her and go from seeing her to dating her after about 3 months.
The story's actually pretty funny.
I was young and I thought that "seeing" and "dating" someone were the same thing.
I considered us dating already, though I hadn't "formally" told her.
She got pretty upset one night over the phone because she was confused where we were standing and hung up on me.
I was pretty confused as well.
I tried to talk to her online and there was one line she wrote that sent chills down my spine: "maybe we should just try to be friends instead.
" This was on the day before my birthday, mind you, so it was a pretty crappy present.
I went from being attracted to her to really caring about her.
The day after (my birthday), I heard that her cat ran away.
Instead of spending the day with my mates partying, I was over at her place, comforting her.
Later that night, I told her that I was committed to her and we officially started dating.
So what did she do? She took away the choice of dating her from me.
By telling me, "maybe we should just try to be friends instead," I had that feeling of loss.
Everything that I had with her would suddenly disappear and at the time, it was a pretty scary thought.
That's why I decided to start dating her.
She still does it now: I want to come over to her place and she takes away that choice if she's annoyed at me.
"You know what? Forget about it.
I don't want you coming over," she says.
Do that to see how much your man is into you.
It worked pretty well on me.
See, understanding men isn't as difficult as it seems.
We are all wired to chase after you once you start pushing yourself away from us.
Chase us and we'll try to put distance between you.
This principle doesn't change when you get married.
Not one bit.
I'm going to talk about how my now wife and I actually started dating in the first place.
This is actually a universal law that works all over the world, in any culture.
It even works in business.
You probably will have used it before, maybe by accident.
Now, you will learn how to use it properly to make your man adore you.
Let's start from the very beginning.
This is how my girlfriend got me to commit to her and go from seeing her to dating her after about 3 months.
The story's actually pretty funny.
I was young and I thought that "seeing" and "dating" someone were the same thing.
I considered us dating already, though I hadn't "formally" told her.
She got pretty upset one night over the phone because she was confused where we were standing and hung up on me.
I was pretty confused as well.
I tried to talk to her online and there was one line she wrote that sent chills down my spine: "maybe we should just try to be friends instead.
" This was on the day before my birthday, mind you, so it was a pretty crappy present.
I went from being attracted to her to really caring about her.
The day after (my birthday), I heard that her cat ran away.
Instead of spending the day with my mates partying, I was over at her place, comforting her.
Later that night, I told her that I was committed to her and we officially started dating.
So what did she do? She took away the choice of dating her from me.
By telling me, "maybe we should just try to be friends instead," I had that feeling of loss.
Everything that I had with her would suddenly disappear and at the time, it was a pretty scary thought.
That's why I decided to start dating her.
She still does it now: I want to come over to her place and she takes away that choice if she's annoyed at me.
"You know what? Forget about it.
I don't want you coming over," she says.
Do that to see how much your man is into you.
It worked pretty well on me.
See, understanding men isn't as difficult as it seems.
We are all wired to chase after you once you start pushing yourself away from us.
Chase us and we'll try to put distance between you.
This principle doesn't change when you get married.
Not one bit.