Understand the Conditions For a Successful Relationship - Get Your Ex Back Using These Principles
These reasons involve a misunderstanding between both parties of the relationship.
There are general conditions for which a healthy and stable relationship function on.
If you can adhere to these conditions you make your relationship with your ex extremely pleasurable and enjoyable.
If you fail to adhere, it spells dysfunction and permanent break-up.
Listen up to the following tips to bring your ex back and have an blissful relationship.
A Successful Relationship Is Built On Equal Effort From Both Sides- You cannot expect to always receive love, attention, care, affection without giving the same things yourself.
A healthy relationship requires compromising from both sides.
You must give of yourself what you expect to receive from your partner.
My rule of thumb for anything in my life, is to always give more value than I receive, and I can tell you that nothing is more gratifying then adopting this rule.
Acting in this way allows you to never be in a state of expectancy, because you are always giving so much of yourself.
You will actually start to become addicted to behaving in this way, because by doing so you will receive far more than you could possibly imagine! A Healthy Relationship Requires Effective Communication- If there is any lack of communication in the relationship it can spell disaster in the long haul.
You have probably discovered this already.
But if you allow small problems to build or passion to burn out in your relationship you can expect a bitter end to come about over time.
Keep the passion alive by effectively communicating with your ex regularly.
Ensure that there is good chemistry between you on a regular basis.
Aswell, if there is any conflict, or small amounts of tension, make absolutely sure that it is cleared out of the way through talking it through with them.
If there is one thing you can dramatically change in your relationship, it is to become an expert communicator with your ex.
Focus strongly on this discipline.
Focus On The Good Things, And Ways To Make Things Better- So often in relationships people focus, and almost develop an obsession about the things that irritate them and what they dislike about their other half.
This is a recipe for disaster, because we absolutely get what we focus on.
If you keep focusing on the negatives, your mind will always search for reasons to reinforce their "focus".
For example, you don't like how your ex talks.
You will always be paying extra attention to what they say, and looking hard for reasons why you hate what they say.
Instead, focus intently on the great things about your partner.
Their smile, their kindness, compassion, sense of humor.
I don't care if you start obsessing about it.
Look for all the most subtle things that reinforce what you like so much about your ex.
If you like their smile, stare at their lips and wait until they put a big silly grin on their face.
Focus is unbelievable power in relationships!