The drama of a breakup is like a roller coaster ride- the highest highs and the lowest lows all within a matter of seconds.
But what about when reality hits you in the middle of the night.
What is a remedy for a broken heart? The easy answer is time.
But what does that mean? A remedy for a broken heart is getting your life back on track.
Yes, if you are talking about a divorce or a long term relationship has many devastating financial as well as emotional facts.
But now is the time to quit wallowing and time to assessment of what you have-not what you don't.
1.
Take Charge and own your broken heart.
Huh? You say? It really doesn't matter who is to blame after the final blow.
Reality is what it is.
Own it and start rebuilding.
Get the move over with.
Deal with the bill collectors.
Then go to the park and just chill for an hour.
2.
Don't fix what's not broken.
Don't go out a buy a new car if the one you have works fine.
That payment for a new car will show up sooner than you think.
Don't alienate more people that might have taken sides during the breakup.
Be cordial.
Don't blow them off.
It may work out to your advantage in the long run.
3.
Accomplish more.
How do you do that? Start Moving! Get the chores done.
Start exercising.
Keep moving and stop the "what if?" thinking that you have been turning over in your head for months.
Think about you all the things you can try now that were out of the question not so long ago.
Now is the time to increase your self confidence.
Realize your self worth.
The best remedy for a broken heart to to take charge and start to own your life again.