"He doesn't want me anymore and I still love him." There isn't a woman anywhere who wants to hear herself saying those words. Loving a man who tells you that he doesn't want you anymore or he doesn't want to be with you anymore is pure emotional torture. It leaves you feeling horribly alone, discarded and confused. How exactly are you supposed to move on if you can no longer share your life with the only man you love? Even though the majority of your well meaning friends and family members will tell you that you're better off without him, you know that's not the case at all. Why give up? Why toss away everything the two of you have shared just because he's pulled back? You don't need to. You can take control of the situation and change things so he not only wants you again, but he'll want you more than you ever thought possible.

The very first thing a woman needs to do when she's been saying to herself, "he doesn't want me anymore," is to accept that, for now, his feelings have changed. Trying to convince someone that they actually do love you when they say they don't, is an exercise in frustration. You'll become more and more discouraged and he'll pull back even further. You have to take the step into acceptance. Just because he doesn't want you right now does not mean that he won't want you in the future. In fact, you're going to ensure that he does want you again. But that requires timing, insight and patience. You can't fix the issues today, so just show him that you're mature enough to accept his change of feelings. This will help you immensely in the long run.

Accepting that he's not as into you as he once was has to be done in a very specific way. You're going to actually push the feeling of being abandoned right back into his lap. Rejection is an emotion that no one is comfortable with. Once you feel it you'll do just about anything to stop feeling it. That's why you need to accept the break up and at the same time reject your boyfriend. You can seamlessly do this by telling him that you're relieved that things have gone the way they have. Tell him that you were feeling disconnected from him emotionally for awhile and it's good to have everything out in the open now. Do this with a smile on your face and you'll make him feel even more confused. Once that conversation is over, give him a quick, friendly hug and walk away. He'll stand there feeling as though his world has caved in. It doesn't matter how much a man claims to not want you anymore. The minute he feels you don't want him too, he'll change his tune.

By showing him that you're mature and strong enough to be without him, he'll question what he meant to you. If a man is unsure about whether a woman wants him his interest in her peaks. It's part of a man's emotional make up to react this way so use it to your full advantage if you want him back for good.