Do most men around you go in the completely opposite direction of falling in love? Is there a new man in your life that you really like, but he just doesn't seem interested in falling in love? Are you looking for ways to make him see that you're the woman for him? Many women ask theses very same questions all the time.
This article can be the key to your problems.
As women, we often feel spoiled and cared for when a man pays special attention to us.
We think it's sweet when he buys us flowers and we want him to remember us on special occasions.
But how much effort does the average woman put into making him feel good, spoiled and cared for.
On the one hand you might say that men are big and strong and don't need to be spoiled and cared for.
Perhaps not in the same way as we seek special attention, but you can't simply ignore him.
Or worse yet, criticize him.
Plan on having conversations with him that are interesting and not only directed at what is going on in your life.
Let him have the floor for a bit and allow him to get everything off his chest.
Men often feel they have to be strong and indestructible in light of everything.
Let him know that he can talk to you about anything without having you get on his back.
Whether things are going great or he's having problems, show your support.
Some women tend to kick a man when he's down, blaming him, accusing him or whining about him.
Let him know you really appreciate the man that he is and encourage him to talk to you even when things aren't great.
Be a good listener, even when he criticizes you.
Don't deny whatever he may have to say and don't shrug it away.
Sometimes when we hear something that we don't like, we have trouble accepting it and choose to simply ignore it.
In a couple that won't be very productive.
If he can calmly and diplomatically come to you to discuss something that is wrong between the two of you, ignoring it will only worsen the problem.
You'll continue doing what he finds unpleasant and he'll become increasingly frustrated.
Solve the problem before it takes over.
If you love him, remember to make him feel great when he's around you.
If he's feeling less than great with you, there may ultimately be little reason to be with you.
This article can be the key to your problems.
As women, we often feel spoiled and cared for when a man pays special attention to us.
We think it's sweet when he buys us flowers and we want him to remember us on special occasions.
But how much effort does the average woman put into making him feel good, spoiled and cared for.
On the one hand you might say that men are big and strong and don't need to be spoiled and cared for.
Perhaps not in the same way as we seek special attention, but you can't simply ignore him.
Or worse yet, criticize him.
Plan on having conversations with him that are interesting and not only directed at what is going on in your life.
Let him have the floor for a bit and allow him to get everything off his chest.
Men often feel they have to be strong and indestructible in light of everything.
Let him know that he can talk to you about anything without having you get on his back.
Whether things are going great or he's having problems, show your support.
Some women tend to kick a man when he's down, blaming him, accusing him or whining about him.
Let him know you really appreciate the man that he is and encourage him to talk to you even when things aren't great.
Be a good listener, even when he criticizes you.
Don't deny whatever he may have to say and don't shrug it away.
Sometimes when we hear something that we don't like, we have trouble accepting it and choose to simply ignore it.
In a couple that won't be very productive.
If he can calmly and diplomatically come to you to discuss something that is wrong between the two of you, ignoring it will only worsen the problem.
You'll continue doing what he finds unpleasant and he'll become increasingly frustrated.
Solve the problem before it takes over.
If you love him, remember to make him feel great when he's around you.
If he's feeling less than great with you, there may ultimately be little reason to be with you.