It will hurt deeply when your spouse wants to divorce you, but you want to save the marriage.
In this situation, there is a decision to be made.
Are you willing to let the marriage end up in a divorce, or are you going to fight this situation and try to save your marriage and keep your family together? If you are reading this article right now, it means that you chose the latter.
And it's a good decision - here are some good plans to follow when your spouse wants to divorce you.
Marriage encompasses your whole life and thus, problems can appear in it for a lot of reasons.
The most common marriage killer is stress associated with everyday life itself.
Things like looking after your children, earning money and paying the bills can unfortunately affect the relationship.
The more and more issues there are in your life, you start to resent your spouse; and the two of you don't even talk about anything anymore - just small talk.
This is because you know that if you discuss things, it's going to get hot and you two are going to fight.
Not seriously talking to your spouse means the death of the marriage.
So, you have to do this: Talk to him or her about the issues, and be willing to compromise.
Is holding your ground really that important - is it more important than your marriage, especially when your spouse wants to divorce you? A different but equally important matter that the couple no longer feel gratitude towards each other.
They take each other for granted.
Maybe you have been taking your spouse for granted - he or she doesn't feel that you appreciate when he or she brings to your life.
And this can kill the love and the marriage.
So, starting from today, make an effort to appreciate your spouse more.
See the good things in him or her.
Make your spouse know that you are thankful for everything that he brought in this marriage.
This can really melt all the ice and make your relationship whole again.