You miss her.
You want her back.
How do you make her realize she needs you back in her life, right now! A break-up for anyone is never easy and the steps you must follow are very difficult.
Trying to make your ex jealous will not help you get her back.
If you want to reunite with her...
you need to take a more constructive approach.
But you will find through following these steps that she will love that you are paying attention and allowing you both the opportunity to heal.
STEP ONE, RESPECT Respect her enough to allow her time and distance.
You both are hurting right now.
She needs this time as much as you do to heal some wounds.
It is very likely that she is missing you too and she is simply to hurt to begin working on the relationship right now.
Quell your desire to reassure her that you are still around.
She probably knows.
She will love that you respect her enough to allow her to heal.
And she will be surprised that you had the courage to allow her much needed time! STEP TWO, PEACE Stop trying to contact her.
She doesn't want to hear from you right now.
If she did she would call! Your continuous contact is confusing and distracting.
Give her some peace and quiet to decide what went wrong and how best to move forward.
She will appreciate that you are being thoughtful enough to allow her the space and time to pull her thoughts together and decide you really are the one.
STEP THREE, ENJOY YOURSELF Has it been a while since you've been out with the guys? Have you missed out on the latest sports action? Take this time to engage in activities that you enjoy apart from a relationship.
A word of caution: your friends may advise you to see someone else to make your girl jealous (or something equally stupid, like a drunken 3 am phone call.
) These tactics are not appreciated nor wise! Doing something foolish may prove to her the break up was the right thing after all! You will have accomplished the complete opposite of your desire and she will be gone forever.
STEP FOUR, SPREAD THE WORD Let your ex know through mutual friends and family that you are moving on with your life.
Also, and more importantly, make it clear that you are not interested in anyone else right now.
This step will peak her interest in how you are doing, while clearly sending her the signal that she really is the only one for you! Breaking up is hard to do.
Getting back together is even more difficult.
Things were said and done on both sides that were wrong.
You both have work to do in repairing your relationship.
The good news is that once you are together again, you have lost time to make up for! And she will appreciate a real man who can provide her the time and space she needs to make her mind up for herself.
You want her back.
How do you make her realize she needs you back in her life, right now! A break-up for anyone is never easy and the steps you must follow are very difficult.
Trying to make your ex jealous will not help you get her back.
If you want to reunite with her...
you need to take a more constructive approach.
But you will find through following these steps that she will love that you are paying attention and allowing you both the opportunity to heal.
STEP ONE, RESPECT Respect her enough to allow her time and distance.
You both are hurting right now.
She needs this time as much as you do to heal some wounds.
It is very likely that she is missing you too and she is simply to hurt to begin working on the relationship right now.
Quell your desire to reassure her that you are still around.
She probably knows.
She will love that you respect her enough to allow her to heal.
And she will be surprised that you had the courage to allow her much needed time! STEP TWO, PEACE Stop trying to contact her.
She doesn't want to hear from you right now.
If she did she would call! Your continuous contact is confusing and distracting.
Give her some peace and quiet to decide what went wrong and how best to move forward.
She will appreciate that you are being thoughtful enough to allow her the space and time to pull her thoughts together and decide you really are the one.
STEP THREE, ENJOY YOURSELF Has it been a while since you've been out with the guys? Have you missed out on the latest sports action? Take this time to engage in activities that you enjoy apart from a relationship.
A word of caution: your friends may advise you to see someone else to make your girl jealous (or something equally stupid, like a drunken 3 am phone call.
) These tactics are not appreciated nor wise! Doing something foolish may prove to her the break up was the right thing after all! You will have accomplished the complete opposite of your desire and she will be gone forever.
STEP FOUR, SPREAD THE WORD Let your ex know through mutual friends and family that you are moving on with your life.
Also, and more importantly, make it clear that you are not interested in anyone else right now.
This step will peak her interest in how you are doing, while clearly sending her the signal that she really is the only one for you! Breaking up is hard to do.
Getting back together is even more difficult.
Things were said and done on both sides that were wrong.
You both have work to do in repairing your relationship.
The good news is that once you are together again, you have lost time to make up for! And she will appreciate a real man who can provide her the time and space she needs to make her mind up for herself.