Getting an ex back after a break-up is often a prolonged and painful process that sometimes doesn't yield the desired results no matter what.
In reality, however, winning your ex back is simply a question of following the right sequence of proven steps rather than blundering about wildly and terrorizing her with phone calls, SMSs and desperate Facebook messages.
This is why in this article I reveal a secret technique which I used to get my own ex-back in just 17 days with four simple yet effective steps.
The first step in getting your ex back is to initiate what expects "No Contact".
Put simply, it is when you enter a phase where you cut all contact with your ex.
Not only do you avoid contacting her in any manner, but you also refuse any efforts from her side to communicate with you.
This is the most difficult part of winning your ex back - but it is essential that you go through it because it gives you some time to heal as well as makes your ex more receptive to the next step in your master plan! After about two weeks of No Contact, you move to the next phase and give your ex a call inviting them to meet you for lunch.
After such a long silence from you, your ex will be naturally curious and will usually accept the offer.
When you call, make the invitation sound as non-threatening as possible and do not mention your break-up.
Be sure to schedule the lunch in advance to give them ample time to prepare.
When the two of you meet, it is essential to keep the conversation light and easy-going.
Your break-up is a taboo topic that should not be mentioned at all! The purpose of this meeting is not to discuss your old grievances, but to show your ex that the two of you can still have a lot of fun together.
If you're having a good time, that's great - because you'll need that positive memory for the next - and final - stage of your plan.