My Wife Hates Me
" these are very powerful words.
You really need to ask yourself is this truly the case.
Did your wife flat out say that she hates you or is this something that you are assuming because of the way that she is acting? If it is true that your wife does hate you then you need to think about a few things.
When did she begin behaving in this manner? Try to think back on when this type of behavior begin with her.
If your wife has not said that she hates you but she is acting as if she does then you will need to begin the process of fixing whatever issues that caused the problem.
Just as her behavior is important, so is yours.
Think about how you were acting when the issues came to surface.
It is important to analyze different factors.
Here are some examples.
- Do you still give her the same amount of affection?
- Are you taking her for granted more recently?
- Are you spending more of your time engage with other people or activities as opposed to being at home?
- Do you still profess your love for her?
- When was the last time you bought her flowers or a gift just because?
- When was the last time you showed your appreciation for all the things that she has done for you?
- Do you still spend time connecting with one another by spending time together by going on dates and being alone together?
- Is the financial situation the same or are there problems with financial security?
If you asked her the questions above what would she say? Saying that your wife hates you is simply horrible.
You have to be proactive and do what is necessary to change the state of your marriage.