A break up is not something that is usually celebrated.
It's difficult to have any type of outlook on life than the negative when you've just split up with the person you love.
While this may seem logical, it's not sensible.
Moping and sulking aren't going to get you anywhere.
They're especially not going to get you back into the arms of your ex.
Human emotions are pretty amazing.
You wouldn't imagine the energy you have right now.
All of that melancholy is seeping from you right now and all you're doing is just sitting there watching TV or listening to songs that make you think of your ex.
You have the key to helping get your ex back right in front of you.
Actually, you have it right inside of you.
You need to use the negative energy that is built up inside of you for good.
I know that sounds like some kind of psycho-babble, but, regardless of what it sounds like, it's true.
In other words: Transform the negative feelings from your break up into passionate motivation.
This is a time to reflect on you.
You're obviously not fit to be in a relationship right now, so why not take this time to figure out why it is that you're not.
Self reflection is over rated.
No one wants to be told how bad they suck...
especially by themselves.
Don't, however, go about this the wrong way.
You shouldn't get down on yourself.
Try to fix the things you do wrong and become a better person.
Everyone needs to do that, you've just got a prime opportunity because of the situation you're currently in.
Take the time to you learn a little bit about yourself and in the process, become a better person.
This will allow you to approach your ex as a better person.
Notice, I didn't say a different person.
Although you will have changed, you'll still be the same person your ex was in love with; you'll just be a better version of that person.