The amount of pain that usually surrounds a break-up often obscures the simple truth - no matter how bad a break-up is, it can usually be reversed! Consider many cases where married couples - even without children - get back together after infidelity, and you'll quickly see that break-ups are not as permanent as they may appear.
That's why in this article I will reveal why your break-up isn't as bad as you might think it is - and how you can get your ex back in just 17 days! First of all, separations are, more often than not, spur-of-the-moment decisions without a lot of thought behind them.
Under emotional duress, problems often appear bigger than they actually are.
That's why even though you have been broken up with, it doesn't mean that your partner isn't willing to sit down and attempt to work our your differences once they've had a chance to calm down.
In general, whether a break-up is reversible or not depends on how much your ex cared about you in the first place.
If you were just someone whom she used and then discarded when you were no longer necessary (and it happened to me once), then your chances of getting her back are slim to none (and, anyway, is that the kind of relationship you'd want to go back to?) However, if she genuinely cared about you, then there's a pretty good chance she'd be willing to give it another try - provided you go about it the right way.
The single best thing you can do immediately after a break-up is to initiate what experts refer to as "No Contact" and sever all communication with your ex for two weeks.
This will allow both of you some time to calm down, heal and consider why the break-up happened.
Phone terrorism and stalking will only scare your ex away - but after two weeks of silence, she will usually be pleased to hear from you.
Begin by giving her a call and having a pleasant chat.
Avoid mentioning your relationship or the break-up and treat her like an old friend.
Chances are, she will be delighted to have a light and entertaining conversation with someone she loves - so she will be thrilled when you offer to meet her for lunch at the end of the phone call.
That's why in this article I will reveal why your break-up isn't as bad as you might think it is - and how you can get your ex back in just 17 days! First of all, separations are, more often than not, spur-of-the-moment decisions without a lot of thought behind them.
Under emotional duress, problems often appear bigger than they actually are.
That's why even though you have been broken up with, it doesn't mean that your partner isn't willing to sit down and attempt to work our your differences once they've had a chance to calm down.
In general, whether a break-up is reversible or not depends on how much your ex cared about you in the first place.
If you were just someone whom she used and then discarded when you were no longer necessary (and it happened to me once), then your chances of getting her back are slim to none (and, anyway, is that the kind of relationship you'd want to go back to?) However, if she genuinely cared about you, then there's a pretty good chance she'd be willing to give it another try - provided you go about it the right way.
The single best thing you can do immediately after a break-up is to initiate what experts refer to as "No Contact" and sever all communication with your ex for two weeks.
This will allow both of you some time to calm down, heal and consider why the break-up happened.
Phone terrorism and stalking will only scare your ex away - but after two weeks of silence, she will usually be pleased to hear from you.
Begin by giving her a call and having a pleasant chat.
Avoid mentioning your relationship or the break-up and treat her like an old friend.
Chances are, she will be delighted to have a light and entertaining conversation with someone she loves - so she will be thrilled when you offer to meet her for lunch at the end of the phone call.