Valentines Day is rarely a happy one for those who have just broken up.
 If you're one of those people but your missing your ex-love many of you might be wondering how to get back your ex.
 If you are and you really want them back for the right reasons, read on because done right you could be rekindling that romance in times for Valentines Day.
  The answer to the question of how to get back your ex is to firstly believe it's possible.
    It's all too easy to write off your chances when you think about the misery and the arguments that came just before your break up.
 If you're going to stand any chance of success you need to flip that thinking to believing it's possible.
 Don't worry about exactly how you're going to win them back, just decide that you're going to try.
  If you're still not sure, here's a tip.
 Think back into your past.
 It's pretty certain that you'll recall someone who got back their ex even though the cause of the break up was pretty extreme.
 Are the circumstances of your break up worse? Probably not, but even if they are it can really be done.
    So having addressed the first part of the question of how to get back your ex by believing it's possible to get back together, you now need to get to work on the next stage.
 Done right you'll be well on the way to making your Valentines a happy one.
  If you really want to answer the riddle of how to get back your ex - you need to understand this:   You're going to have to get inside their head.
  To do that you're going to need a plan and you're going to radically improve your chances if you use techniques that appeal to their curiosity as opposed to sounding desperate and needy.
 You will not get back your ex through pleading with them.
 Anything you do is going to need to give them a good reason to want to get back with you.
 Once you've found out how to create your plan and how to use the trigger words you're going to need to put your plan into action.