Well if you have been betrayed by marital infidelity I know you may feel right now that there is no hope.
If you are asking can a marriage survive an affair, trust me it can.
If you seek and follow the right advice on rebuilding trust in your marriage, and are determined to work on it, you will be able to stay together and move on past the extramarital affair.
I was watching a movie the other day that made me think about how marital affairs happen.
It is said that familiarity breeds contempt.
Perhaps no truer words have been said about relationships.
This article discusses what can be done to help a marriage survive an affair.
Before you got married, while you were still dating or even before you started dating,you probably were awed by your spouse.
Asking them out made you nervous and fearful of being turned down and when they did agree to date you, you seemed to be the happiest person on earth.
You took your time to get ready for that date.
May be you put on your best outfit and perfume.
You made sure you looked your best and even rehearsed in front of the mirror what you were going to say or do so as not to screw up your date.
Now that you're married you have become so familiar with your spouse that they no longer make your heart skip a beat.
You no longer have butterflies in your stomach or jitters down your spine at the sound of their voice.
How did this happen? When did this person who once captivated you so much become someone you hardly even notice these days? For a marriage to survive an affair, we must be careful to maintain the excitement we felt at seeing each other when we first started dating.
That is one way to ensure that our marriage can outlast any affair.
A couple can survive an affair if they are willing to work on the underlying causes of the betrayal.
Most often, affairs don't simply happen because the other person is just craving for sex.
It is usually a sign of deeper issues about the relationship.
Most likely, someone's needs are being ignored.
They feel dissatisfied in the relationship and thus look for what they are not getting in the marriage else where.
Take sometime and think about how you lost the enchantment for your partner.
What are some things you can do to restore that thrill? Can a marriage survive an affair? I hope you can forgive your spouse, work through the problems that led to the affair and rebuild honesty again so that you can have a positive answer to this question.
If you are asking can a marriage survive an affair, trust me it can.
If you seek and follow the right advice on rebuilding trust in your marriage, and are determined to work on it, you will be able to stay together and move on past the extramarital affair.
I was watching a movie the other day that made me think about how marital affairs happen.
It is said that familiarity breeds contempt.
Perhaps no truer words have been said about relationships.
This article discusses what can be done to help a marriage survive an affair.
Before you got married, while you were still dating or even before you started dating,you probably were awed by your spouse.
Asking them out made you nervous and fearful of being turned down and when they did agree to date you, you seemed to be the happiest person on earth.
You took your time to get ready for that date.
May be you put on your best outfit and perfume.
You made sure you looked your best and even rehearsed in front of the mirror what you were going to say or do so as not to screw up your date.
Now that you're married you have become so familiar with your spouse that they no longer make your heart skip a beat.
You no longer have butterflies in your stomach or jitters down your spine at the sound of their voice.
How did this happen? When did this person who once captivated you so much become someone you hardly even notice these days? For a marriage to survive an affair, we must be careful to maintain the excitement we felt at seeing each other when we first started dating.
That is one way to ensure that our marriage can outlast any affair.
A couple can survive an affair if they are willing to work on the underlying causes of the betrayal.
Most often, affairs don't simply happen because the other person is just craving for sex.
It is usually a sign of deeper issues about the relationship.
Most likely, someone's needs are being ignored.
They feel dissatisfied in the relationship and thus look for what they are not getting in the marriage else where.
Take sometime and think about how you lost the enchantment for your partner.
What are some things you can do to restore that thrill? Can a marriage survive an affair? I hope you can forgive your spouse, work through the problems that led to the affair and rebuild honesty again so that you can have a positive answer to this question.