The Number One Reason Men Cheat - A Stay Home Moms Guide to Keeping Your Man
My brothers and their many friends are always happy to talk about such issues.
In fact, their glad to have someone hear them out.
I am that person and come to share the secrets of men with you, my eager female audience.
The number one reason men cheat is that their world has changed but not to the extent ours does.
Imagine still going to your job, the same job with the same people as when you were single.
How has your life changed and most of all are the people in it different as well? When you become the stay home parent, your spouse remains in the same daytime world while yours is anything but the same.
Most important, why does the desire to cheat happen? Do you think you know? The ONE Big Change Not that you've had time to consider the changes in your man's life, let's explore the one he notices the most.
That my friend is you! Yep, you're now a stay home Mom that spends less and less time on your appearance.
When was the last time you painted your toe nails? Still keeping everything groomed like you once did? Oh and yes, the most important thing, do you have adult conversations with him like you once did? Why this matters? It matters because your man has something to compare you to and therefore notices your changes more.
What MEN Miss the Most •IT'S YOU! Spending time with YOU! •Not so much the way you look, he understands that.
•It's more about the time you spend together.
•The lounging and rolling in each others arms time.
•The reading the paper time.
•The running out to grab coffee, donuts or a burger time.
•It's the buddy time, sharing each other and bonding time.
•Yep you once were buddies and now it's missing! PLUS Do you take the time to send text messages or email him at work just to be playful? Do you do the silly things you did before kids? Of course you don't, how could you, where's the time? The big thing to consider is that while his life away from home is still the same; life at home is changing a lot.
The things he notices and misses is the little things we've mentioned.
Try to put yourself in his shoes.
It's easy to think about what has happened to you, and your changes.
It's hard to think of his point of view.
The Solution You have got to get in the mind of a guy.
In fact it's the key to avoid cheating and keep your man.
Most of all, it's the key to both your happiness.
You can learn how to keep a great relationships and still be a great stay home Mom.
The number one reason men cheat is not a bad thing! The Truth Sticking your head in the sand and refusing to face the issue will only get you single and miserable again.
Learn how to get inside the head of a man and avoid cheating, breakups and lovers rejection.
It is all a matter of what you don't know.
Stop a break up, divorce or lovers rejection even if it seems impossible!