Words Matter If You Want Your Ex Back! Use the Right Words & You Will Have Your Ex Back Fast!
So what do you feel lead to your breakup? No matter what reasons you might come up with...
you will notice a very common pattern.
And that is your selection of words.
I can bet that the breakup occurred when the wrong things were said by both the parties.
Now the past is the past and you can't change what you said in the past but if you want to get your ex back...
you have to be very careful with your selection of words.
Do you know that getting your ex back is just a matter of saying the right things at the right time? Read on to figure out how you can pull your ex back by using the right set of words...
"How are you?"...
- This open-ended question will be the bridge for you to go on and have a coffee because you'll be talking more.
Tie this question with a smile as that will give him/her an impression that you're okay and you're not going to talk about the break up and how you've been since he/she left.
This is a great ice breaker.
It also shows you that you are thinking about your ex, which tells them you are not so selfish anymore, especially if you used to concentrate on yourself a lot when together.
"I'm Sorry"...
- When you've already establish security of being outside your comfort zone, be ready to apologize.
Say as simple as "I'm sorry".
You have to do this as a sign of closure with everything that happen to both of you in the past.
Even though you're not the one who initiated the break up you have to draw responsibility in accepting the flaw if you want him/her back.
You must also keep in mind the fact that an apology should never be taken for granted.
Your ex DOES NOT have to forgive you, nor take you back just because you SAID you are sorry, so be prepared to PROVE that you are in fact sorry.
Opening a new topic - It should not be related about your break up or about your past relationship.
For sure, both of you had many topics to open up because you've given chances for the both of you to unwind for a little while.
I'm sure he is excited to tell you stories about his experience or some events of his life during your absence because this is what you were both doing when you are still committed with each other.
"I miss you and I want you back" - The above conversation should be a continuous process.
You should keep contact with him, not everyday, but often.
You are the only person to say that, "yes, I'm ready to say/do this" because you're the one who's going to feel that way.
It will certainly unburden your heart because you've already said what you want to say for the longest time.
And your ex will have the thought in giving your relationship another chance because you both are still in love with each other.
you will notice a very common pattern.
And that is your selection of words.
I can bet that the breakup occurred when the wrong things were said by both the parties.
Now the past is the past and you can't change what you said in the past but if you want to get your ex back...
you have to be very careful with your selection of words.
Do you know that getting your ex back is just a matter of saying the right things at the right time? Read on to figure out how you can pull your ex back by using the right set of words...
"How are you?"...
- This open-ended question will be the bridge for you to go on and have a coffee because you'll be talking more.
Tie this question with a smile as that will give him/her an impression that you're okay and you're not going to talk about the break up and how you've been since he/she left.
This is a great ice breaker.
It also shows you that you are thinking about your ex, which tells them you are not so selfish anymore, especially if you used to concentrate on yourself a lot when together.
"I'm Sorry"...
- When you've already establish security of being outside your comfort zone, be ready to apologize.
Say as simple as "I'm sorry".
You have to do this as a sign of closure with everything that happen to both of you in the past.
Even though you're not the one who initiated the break up you have to draw responsibility in accepting the flaw if you want him/her back.
You must also keep in mind the fact that an apology should never be taken for granted.
Your ex DOES NOT have to forgive you, nor take you back just because you SAID you are sorry, so be prepared to PROVE that you are in fact sorry.
Opening a new topic - It should not be related about your break up or about your past relationship.
For sure, both of you had many topics to open up because you've given chances for the both of you to unwind for a little while.
I'm sure he is excited to tell you stories about his experience or some events of his life during your absence because this is what you were both doing when you are still committed with each other.
"I miss you and I want you back" - The above conversation should be a continuous process.
You should keep contact with him, not everyday, but often.
You are the only person to say that, "yes, I'm ready to say/do this" because you're the one who's going to feel that way.
It will certainly unburden your heart because you've already said what you want to say for the longest time.
And your ex will have the thought in giving your relationship another chance because you both are still in love with each other.