A break-up is one of the most painful things an individual can face; a well-stated quote: "It takes a couple seconds to say Hello, but forever to say Goodbye.
" It's never easy to forget an ex.
You think about the great times you had together and every thought is about her/him and how to win her/him back.
It is likely you are feeling that you lost something that was given a great deal of attention to and sacrifice in your life.
You may feel like you have no control of your life and you may be depressed and disappointed.
The good news is that many relationships can actually be saved! The first step is to find the reason for the break-up.
What was the straw that broke the camel's back? Why did it happen? Be careful when trying to answer.
Maybe it was caused by some event or some behavior that either you or her/him executed...
No matter what the reason was, even though you can't go back into the past to change situation, you can learn from the mistakes that were made and understand what to do in the future.
The best advice is to keep patience and think over what you are doing and why you are doing it.
Don't sent her/him too many SMSs or call her/him too many times, because this will make you look something pestering and needy.
Stay cool and be strong.
Don't harass and don't haunt her/him either; such behavior is likely to push her/him further away from you.
The best thing to do in the meantime, while your plan is in motion, is to spend time with friends and family and distract yourself.
If things are going smoothly at this point with your ex.
, wait for the right time to meet with her/him.
Give your former some time to clear her/him head.
Do not rush this; if you are genuine and truly love her/him, and are willing to wait for her/him, this will be apparent.
Just wait for the right time.
When you meet keep the conversation short and light.
Don't talk about past hurts or problems.
What's done is done.
Make her/him feel comfortable by setting the tone to "It's time to wipe the slate clean and start over".
There are many techniques, but only a few are worth trying.
You need a strategic plan to get your ex back.
Do and say the right things and you will be almost guaranteed that she/he will come back into your life.
Do the wrong things you will lose her forever.
" It's never easy to forget an ex.
You think about the great times you had together and every thought is about her/him and how to win her/him back.
It is likely you are feeling that you lost something that was given a great deal of attention to and sacrifice in your life.
You may feel like you have no control of your life and you may be depressed and disappointed.
The good news is that many relationships can actually be saved! The first step is to find the reason for the break-up.
What was the straw that broke the camel's back? Why did it happen? Be careful when trying to answer.
Maybe it was caused by some event or some behavior that either you or her/him executed...
No matter what the reason was, even though you can't go back into the past to change situation, you can learn from the mistakes that were made and understand what to do in the future.
The best advice is to keep patience and think over what you are doing and why you are doing it.
Don't sent her/him too many SMSs or call her/him too many times, because this will make you look something pestering and needy.
Stay cool and be strong.
Don't harass and don't haunt her/him either; such behavior is likely to push her/him further away from you.
The best thing to do in the meantime, while your plan is in motion, is to spend time with friends and family and distract yourself.
If things are going smoothly at this point with your ex.
, wait for the right time to meet with her/him.
Give your former some time to clear her/him head.
Do not rush this; if you are genuine and truly love her/him, and are willing to wait for her/him, this will be apparent.
Just wait for the right time.
When you meet keep the conversation short and light.
Don't talk about past hurts or problems.
What's done is done.
Make her/him feel comfortable by setting the tone to "It's time to wipe the slate clean and start over".
There are many techniques, but only a few are worth trying.
You need a strategic plan to get your ex back.
Do and say the right things and you will be almost guaranteed that she/he will come back into your life.
Do the wrong things you will lose her forever.