"My wife no longer loves me," said the man uncertain about the future of his marriage. In many marriages a man starts to pick up subtle clues from his spouse that suggests that she doesn't love him anymore. In your case maybe your wife is more critical of you or perhaps she spends more and more time at the office, working hard to avoid being near you. Regardless, it's impossible not to notice the strong shift in your relationship. Your wife is pulling away emotionally and you're fearful that it means the end of your marriage is on the horizon. There's absolutely no reason why you can't get your wife to love you again. In fact, if you're determined and focused you can make her love you more now than she ever has before.

It's very easy to assume that your wife has fallen out of love with you when in fact something else is at play. Many women will start to detach themselves emotionally from their spouse when he stops being as loving as he once was. Obviously marriage is a two-way street and both partners have to be willing to invest a great deal of time, energy and emotion into making things work. If you emotionally checked out of the relationship months or years ago, it should be no surprise to you that your wife is now doing the same.

Do you still tend to your wife's needs the way you did when you two first married? Do you call her up in the middle of the day to tell her how grateful you feel that she married you? Those small gestures can make an enormous difference in any relationship. If your wife feels cherished and adored by you, she'll want you to feel those same things from her.

Beginning right this very moment make your wife your number one priority. Put her above everyone else in your life and ensure she knows that there's nothing you wouldn't do for her. Help her around the house more, listen to her more intently and offer your assistance and shoulder whenever she needs it. Also, start dating your wife again. Invite her out for a nice dinner or arrange child care so you can cook her favorite dish at home. Your new life goal has to be making your wife feel like the center of your universe. If you can do that, she'll realize the true value of your marriage and she'll open herself back up to loving you again.