What is the secret to making a man fall in love? Does it mean he loves you if he lusts for you? What are the differences between falling in love and falling in lust? Think of passion, desire, emotions - which of these bring love? All play a part in starting a relationship, but only one can make him fall deeply into love.
Lust is the strong physical desire a man feels for a woman when he first meets her.
It is quite powerful and can take over a man's thoughts, but it cannot bring lasting love.
Why? Because lust is a simple fact of biology.
It is a natural instinct which happens simply because of physical attraction and yearning.
It happens on its own and doesn't require any effort from the man.
Lust is easy for guys and keeps them happy because they don't have to do anything to bring it on.
A man will stay "in lust" until the newness of the connection wears off or the physical excitement begins to fade.
What happens then? What happens is that the relationship could easily begin to dissolve.
If your hopes are to achieve a lasting connection and make a man fall in love, you must bond emotionally with him rather than physically.
You must feel the attachment which results from learning about each other and sharing thoughts and feelings.
You must sense that you are open and can always depend on each other.
This is the substance that is needed to acquire a relationship which will last.
For exactly these reasons, you should wait to have sex: you should not be sidetracked in the beginning of a relationship by caving in to your lustful desires.
When you focus your attention on sex, your efforts toward emotional bonding fall by the wayside and this will usually destroy the formation of a true loving union.
Let sex wait so that you can build a connection on substance.
Sex will happen eventually; but, to make him fall in love, let it happen later rather than sooner.