Before you take the plunge sit down and write out 100 pre marriage questions that matter most to you and that you want to know about your fiance. 100 is the minimum number of questions to consider. Some therapists recommend even more. The idea here is the more you know about your future spouse - the better! You don't want to find yourself 3 years into a marriage and realize she wants kids and you don't. Or find you have extremely different views on how to raise kids. FOr example' maybe he was spanked as a child and thinks it's ok and you were not raised that way and think very differently - these are things to consider well before you take that trip down the isle.

They say 50% of marriages end in divorce and It's not always about children, it's a whole range of different scenarios. Sometimes it's about money , maybe one spouse likes to spend and the other enjoys saving . Sometimes it's about religion. A lot of couples don't even think much about their different religions until it comes time for their baby to be baptized and that's when it hits the fan! It's better to discuss these pre marriage questions well before you pick out that ring, not everyone is compatible and as statistics have shown not every marriage will make it.

No 100 questions before marriage list will be exact to your needs but they can be used as a guide to get you started. You know what matters most to you so customized your own list and discuss it with your future partner. Make sure you are on the same page on topics that you will absolutely not budge on.

Save yourself the money and heartache by not rushing in too soon , take the time to really get to know your partner first and don't be afraid to ask those 100 questions before you get married. It's your future!

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