Do you think lying in a marriage is healthy? I think in some situations it is.
For example, if your husband starts to gain weight and his abs disappear; are you going to tell him he looks fat? I wouldn't just to avoid conflict and an ugly argument.
If you are the type of person that tells it like it is you know what will happen next.
He would say "well you look like you put on some weight too.
"The older I get, the more I realize it's not worth the heartache and anguish to criticize my husband on his physical appearance.
We have too many issues internally that we need to focus and work on.
For the most part, I love making my husband feel good about himself because if I don't he will find someone else who will.
Most of the time, women don't realize that they are the reason why many men creep outside the marriage.
If you are constantly belittling your husband he is not going to want to be around you because you make him feel miserable and incapable of loving you "the right way.
" So the next time your husband asks you if he has gained some weight embellish a little and say, "Yes, but now you look more like a burly man.
" It might not be true, however he still feels good about himself and you haven't crushed his self-esteem.
Keep your man as happy and satisfied as possible and he will be yours forever.