After a break up with a boyfriend many women ask what they did wrong.
Their feelings are damaged and they cannot see where the problems in the relationship were.
The other common question is how they can get back with their boyfriend and make the relationship work.
The problem with getting back with an ex is that most women try to do it by begging to be taken back or with constant phone calls.
This is not the way to go about it as the desperation will drive a wedge even further between the two of you.
Instead it is important to allow him some space.
You will also benefit greatly from this too.
If it is not immediately obvious what the problems in the relationship were and your ex has not given you good reasons, then try to think it through and come to some conclusions.
Were you arguing more than normal, were you being distant or wrapped up in other things, were you clinging too much? These are some of the common reasons.
It is also possible that as the relationship moved on your boyfriend did not think he was being appreciated any more.
Even though he would never say this he may have been feeling it.
Often men will not express themselves about this kind of thing so you may not have noticed it at the time.
If you can find the root of the problem while maintaining your dignity you are on your way to getting him back.