It's been a tough breakup, and now all you want is to figure out how to get back your girlfriend.
Easier said than done? Not quite, here are some valuable tips to consider if you ever want to win back her affections.
•Keep your distance and communication to a minimum.
If she's still angry and hurt, she wouldn't want to be talking to you a lot, or see you for that matter.
Don't waste your time sending her tons of emails and phone calls because you wouldn't get the response you want.
Quite the opposite actually, because these actions will only make her resent you more and try harder to avoid you.
If you ever want to see her and talk to her again, then respect her personal space.
She's going to need time to sort out her emotions, and so do you.
Recover first, heal, call her or text her to say hi or greet her on occasions like birthdays and holidays.
If she doesn't respond, then she's not ready yet.
If she does respond, proceed with caution until you're sure she's ready to start talking to you again.
•Breakups are private and are only discussed among friends during times when you need comfort.
Therefore, blog posts, Facebook and Friendster is not the place to broadcast your feelings.
If you wish to write about them and express your feelings, then write them down on a journal.
Something private and for your eyes only.
•Forget self-pity because it will only make you suffer more.
Pity parties are not for those who want their ex back.
Confidence is your ticket to reconciliation.
This means no begging, no tears, no moping around and letting her see how depressed you are.
No, if you want her back, then be the man she wants to be with.
Don't be afraid to live your life again.
Focus on your career and social life, spend time with your friends and have a great time.
To help build your confidence, you can try activities like sports or even going to the gym.
If you want to get your girlfriend back, let her see you as someone who can bounce back and get on with his life.