You still have feelings for her. When you think about her, you just cannot help yourself. You don't even want to imagine her getting with some other guy, but you know that this just might happen if you cannot figure out how to attract her back. Getting back with your ex-girlfriend is not always something that is going to be easy, but when you know what she needs to feel, then you can make her want to come back to you.

Here are 3 tips to attract her back and stop feeling like you are going to lose her:

1. You need to understand that your ex-girlfriend is feeling very emotional right now. When a woman breaks up with a guy, even when she is the one that does it, she is going to have a lot of emotions that are constantly changing on her. One minute she thinks it was a good idea and then the next, she is not quite sure. This can be good for you, as long as you realize that she is feeling this way.

2. You need to be willing to make some changes to your life. One of the more common pitfalls for a man that is trying to get his girlfriend back is to stay stuck in a rut. Just because you are feeling sad over the breakup, don't let it get in the way of making your life better. You want to be a guy that has things together, as this is going to look a lot more appealing to your ex girlfriend than her seeing you depressed and desperate to win her back.

3. You need to be able to use techniques based on female psychology to win her back. When you try methods that are supposed to work on pulling her back to you, they have to be based on female psychology. Otherwise, you are going to end up getting it wrong. A lot of the so called expert advice is not geared towards using female psychology, but just general tidbits and that is not going to work to pull her back nearly as well as targeted techniques.