We have all loved and lost at some time or the other in our lives.
Most of the times we learn to move on.
But at times we don't want to let go.
So, instead of pining away we can take stock of the situation and devise a game plan to get back together.
Change for the better The fact that you are single today bears testament to the fact that there has been something wrong in your relationship.
It is imperative that you understand the reason that caused your break-up and convert your weakness into your strength.
For instance, if you have been very demanding or controlling, find a creative outlet to your feelings, get a hobby.
You are more likely to feel comfortable with yourself and less likely to smother your partner.
Look great.
When you decide to meet your ex, make sure that you have paid a visit to the salon.
Loose that extra weight and get a makeover.
Once you look good, you feel good about yourself and that confidence shows.
An attractive and more confident you is most likely to leave a lasting impression on him/her.
Carefully make your move Once you are ready, make that dreaded phone call.
But be sure that you do not appear to be desperate.
He/she does not need to know how desperately you want him/her back in your life.
Nothing can be more putting off.
Once he/she meets the new you he/she will notice the changes and be pleasantly surprised.
Start afresh Talking about your past together is not going to get you anywhere.
Instead of rehashing what has already transpired and refreshing his/her memory about the things gone wrong, talk about the new and the more positive changes in your life.
The new attractive and more confident you is bound to get the other person thinking about what he/she is missing out on.