Has your ex completely shut you out of their lives? Cut you off like a light switch? You may feel like the situation is hopeless, but there is hope.
Winning an ex back is still possible, even in the most hopeless situation.
There are several reasons why this may have happened.
There are some people who will completely shut you out of their lives out of their own guilt.
They could have cheated on you and can no longer look you in the eyes.
This happens and does not get communicated during the breakup leaving you wondering what went wrong.
Another reason is that they just might be going through a mid life crisis.
If this is the case, you may need to give them time so they can get a better perspective.
Believe it or not, this is quite common and may require you be a bit patient.
They may have felt smothered.
This does tend to happen, especially when you are getting closer to your spouse.
Too much of a good thing can put the fright into some people.
Once again, they may just need some space.
If some time has gone by and you still have not heard from your ex you may want to try to bridge the gap with some simple, light interaction.
A short text message or call just to say hi and see how they are doing.
Do not make the conversation very long.
You should keep it short.
You need for them to see that you have a life and are not just waiting around for them, even if you are.
Keeping the communication open is one of the first steps to winning back your ex.
Try to become friends and then build on that.
There are more steps to this process that I highly urge you to follow to win back you ex!