Your ex is very likely down and depressed at the moment and knows full well that you feel exactly the same.
He/she can almost see you crying your eyes out all the time, giving up on life, and letting yourself go completely.
However, can you imagine how your ex will feel if things are not like this at all and you are NOT sitting around moping? This is called reverse psychology, and is an excellent way to get your ex back.
Right after your break up it is very difficult to use reverse psychology to get your ex back, but given time, it gets a lot easier.
Being as depressed as you are right now makes it extremely difficult to pretend to be happy and carefree.
If you keep telling yourself that it will get your ex back, this should motivate you.
Start off by making yourself feel better by dressing up and going out with your friends.
The trick is to not let on to your friends that you are applying reverse psychology to get your ex back.
All your efforts will be spoilt because they will waste no time in telling your ex what you are up to.
Simply tell them that you feel it is an absolute waste of time to sit around feeling sorry for yourself when you can be out there and enjoying yourself.
Of course they are going to think that you have lost your mind - after all, you have just been through a really bad break up.
Now this is just the thing that you WANT them to tell your ex - it is this that is going to get the ball rolling and eventually get your ex back.
Carry on doing this - it will gradually become so easy to do, that you won't be pretending anymore.
Sooner or later your ex will not be able to stand it anymore.
Your ex will make contact with you simply to satisfy his/her curiosity as to what you are really up to.
This is the opportunity you have been waiting for! Your ex has made contact with you, finally, and now all it takes is for you to play your cards right and get your ex back.
He/she can almost see you crying your eyes out all the time, giving up on life, and letting yourself go completely.
However, can you imagine how your ex will feel if things are not like this at all and you are NOT sitting around moping? This is called reverse psychology, and is an excellent way to get your ex back.
Right after your break up it is very difficult to use reverse psychology to get your ex back, but given time, it gets a lot easier.
Being as depressed as you are right now makes it extremely difficult to pretend to be happy and carefree.
If you keep telling yourself that it will get your ex back, this should motivate you.
Start off by making yourself feel better by dressing up and going out with your friends.
The trick is to not let on to your friends that you are applying reverse psychology to get your ex back.
All your efforts will be spoilt because they will waste no time in telling your ex what you are up to.
Simply tell them that you feel it is an absolute waste of time to sit around feeling sorry for yourself when you can be out there and enjoying yourself.
Of course they are going to think that you have lost your mind - after all, you have just been through a really bad break up.
Now this is just the thing that you WANT them to tell your ex - it is this that is going to get the ball rolling and eventually get your ex back.
Carry on doing this - it will gradually become so easy to do, that you won't be pretending anymore.
Sooner or later your ex will not be able to stand it anymore.
Your ex will make contact with you simply to satisfy his/her curiosity as to what you are really up to.
This is the opportunity you have been waiting for! Your ex has made contact with you, finally, and now all it takes is for you to play your cards right and get your ex back.