3 Simple Ways to Ensure That the Spark Remains in Your Marriage
In this article you will be shown 3 very simple things which you can do today to ensure that the spark remains in your marriage.
While the rest of the world is busy getting divorced, you need to get busy doing the following...
Number One - Always Say "I Love You" You need to get into the habit of saying these time tested and trusted words "I love you" to your spouse daily.
Saying I love you achieves a lot of things; - It reassures your partner that you care - It calms underlying annoyance - It endears you further to your spouse You should make it a point of duty to say these words even during an argument.
You should never allow a situation or circumstance occur where you cannot bring yourself to say I love you.
So if your spouse is in the kitchen cooking you a meal, simply slip into the kitchen and whisper it into his / her ears.
Number Two - Be Spontaneous Spontaneity describes an ability to be impulsive in a good and positive way and good and positive is what we want right about now so you are encouraged to be spontaneous.
An example of being spontaneous is this; you leave the office on Friday and you get home before your wife - you suddenly (spontaneously) decide that you would love to surprise her.
Call a hotel or motel to book a room for the night then pack an overnight bag for her; you then lock up the house and head over to her work place to pick her up.
If you cannot go to her work place to pick her up, you can wait for her at home.
Once she gets home, do not allow her to enter into the house.
Instead you should whisk her away in your car and drive to that hotel or motel where you have a reservation.
If you feel all of this is too much then when next you are in the super market purchasing stuff, buy anything that reminds you of your spouse (it does not have to be expensive) and attach a note to it after wrapping it stating exactly why it reminds you of her.
Number Three - Watch What You Say You need to be careful about the words that come out of your mouth.
As the saying goes; "sticks and stones may break my bones but words can break my heart".
Whether or not you are engaged in a heated argument with your partner, you need to always be conscious of what you say to him or her.
Eliminate words like; "you never ever...
" or "you always...
" instead you should use words like "I feel that this...
" or "I think that we ought to...
" Doing the above will guarantee that that spark will return to or remain in your marriage.
While the rest of the world is busy getting divorced, you need to get busy doing the following...
Number One - Always Say "I Love You" You need to get into the habit of saying these time tested and trusted words "I love you" to your spouse daily.
Saying I love you achieves a lot of things; - It reassures your partner that you care - It calms underlying annoyance - It endears you further to your spouse You should make it a point of duty to say these words even during an argument.
You should never allow a situation or circumstance occur where you cannot bring yourself to say I love you.
So if your spouse is in the kitchen cooking you a meal, simply slip into the kitchen and whisper it into his / her ears.
Number Two - Be Spontaneous Spontaneity describes an ability to be impulsive in a good and positive way and good and positive is what we want right about now so you are encouraged to be spontaneous.
An example of being spontaneous is this; you leave the office on Friday and you get home before your wife - you suddenly (spontaneously) decide that you would love to surprise her.
Call a hotel or motel to book a room for the night then pack an overnight bag for her; you then lock up the house and head over to her work place to pick her up.
If you cannot go to her work place to pick her up, you can wait for her at home.
Once she gets home, do not allow her to enter into the house.
Instead you should whisk her away in your car and drive to that hotel or motel where you have a reservation.
If you feel all of this is too much then when next you are in the super market purchasing stuff, buy anything that reminds you of your spouse (it does not have to be expensive) and attach a note to it after wrapping it stating exactly why it reminds you of her.
Number Three - Watch What You Say You need to be careful about the words that come out of your mouth.
As the saying goes; "sticks and stones may break my bones but words can break my heart".
Whether or not you are engaged in a heated argument with your partner, you need to always be conscious of what you say to him or her.
Eliminate words like; "you never ever...
" or "you always...
" instead you should use words like "I feel that this...
" or "I think that we ought to...
" Doing the above will guarantee that that spark will return to or remain in your marriage.