You have lost your guy...he broke things off, and now it appears he's moved on, but you still want him back because you still love him. So, "how do I get him back?"
If you are in a situation where you will be seeing your ex from time to time because you tend to hang out with the same crowd, here are 7 steps that can get you going in the right direction.
1 - When you're around him, don't act like an ex. Just be a good friend, with none of the issues or baggage of a ex. You can see each other, talk to each other, joke around and have fun. Be friendly and respectful without the stress that goes with a committed relationship. Everything is casual with no commitments here.
2 - Don't let on that you still want him, need him, and love him. Now is not the time for that.
3 - Whenever you have contact with him, be positive, friendly, and kind...with a little bit of attitude. You want him to see you at your best and to have a growing desire to be with you again, but you also want him to think that he can't have you...at least not just yet. Make him think that you’re available, but not easy...a little bit of hard to get.
4 - If an opportunity arises in the conversation, bring up a time that you shared that was really great for both of you. This will remind him of the good times you had together, and maybe get him thinking about what might have been.
5 - Don't make him your focus when you are at the same place. Be with your other friends too, and let him know that you can be a fun person to be around by having fun with your friends. Show him that you have moved on with your life, and that you are okay with that.
6 - Never act desperate or whinny or jilted. If you are inclined to feel that way, you can't show it. You have just got to fake it if that's the way you feel. Acting that way will not get him back...it will only serve to push him away.
7 - If he is with another girl, or even if he isn't, let him catch you looking at him out of the corner of your eye. This will let him know that there is a certain level of interest in a mysterious sort of way.
Thank goodness for people like T ‘Dub’ Jackson who came up with a step by step guide available at www.MakeUpFromBreakUp.com. It tells you what to do, and when to do it and just as important, what not to do. Don’t mess up your make up. Still love my ex, so get him back!
If you are in a situation where you will be seeing your ex from time to time because you tend to hang out with the same crowd, here are 7 steps that can get you going in the right direction.
1 - When you're around him, don't act like an ex. Just be a good friend, with none of the issues or baggage of a ex. You can see each other, talk to each other, joke around and have fun. Be friendly and respectful without the stress that goes with a committed relationship. Everything is casual with no commitments here.
2 - Don't let on that you still want him, need him, and love him. Now is not the time for that.
3 - Whenever you have contact with him, be positive, friendly, and kind...with a little bit of attitude. You want him to see you at your best and to have a growing desire to be with you again, but you also want him to think that he can't have you...at least not just yet. Make him think that you’re available, but not easy...a little bit of hard to get.
4 - If an opportunity arises in the conversation, bring up a time that you shared that was really great for both of you. This will remind him of the good times you had together, and maybe get him thinking about what might have been.
5 - Don't make him your focus when you are at the same place. Be with your other friends too, and let him know that you can be a fun person to be around by having fun with your friends. Show him that you have moved on with your life, and that you are okay with that.
6 - Never act desperate or whinny or jilted. If you are inclined to feel that way, you can't show it. You have just got to fake it if that's the way you feel. Acting that way will not get him back...it will only serve to push him away.
7 - If he is with another girl, or even if he isn't, let him catch you looking at him out of the corner of your eye. This will let him know that there is a certain level of interest in a mysterious sort of way.
Thank goodness for people like T ‘Dub’ Jackson who came up with a step by step guide available at www.MakeUpFromBreakUp.com. It tells you what to do, and when to do it and just as important, what not to do. Don’t mess up your make up. Still love my ex, so get him back!