Let's be straight now: There are ways on how to save a marriage.
But what if one spouse has really made his or her mind up on getting divorced? This doesn't matter at all - still, there are things that will save your marriage if you do them correctly.
How can I say this? Two things: 1.
Because I have saved a marriage which was ending by all accounts and there seemed no hope of saving my marriage.
2.
I now can think clearly: Your spouse has married you for a reason.
 But now you are no longer the "old you", so he or she wants to divorce.
Regardless of what anyone might say, and regardless of  whatever has happened between the couple (including infidelity), you CAN do things to convince him or her that you are still the old you - and then the reason your spouse has married you will return.
It is that easy.
But on how to save a marriage, most people go the wrong way.
 Because they are devastated by their crumbling marriage (tell me about it, I was thinking of suicide), it blurs their mind and they do not do the things they have to do in order to save a marriage; and do things that gets them farther away from stopping their divorce.
The list of things that you have to do, and the list of things you must not do (in order to save your marriage) is too long to fit here.
But if there is one single advice I can give you, it would be: "Stop Begging and Crying.
" Begging and crying does absolutely nothing to get a fed up husband or wife back, it will only make them more fed up with you.
 So get yourself straight and stop begging.