You have been seeing the same guy for a while now. As far as you can tell things are just lovely between the two of you. He calls you up and tells you, he needs to see you, because it is very important.

You begin to think, what he could he possibly want to talk to me about that is so important. May be he is ready to take it to the next level. Could he be ready to make a real commitment?

The two of you meet and he tells you he loves you. But, he needs some time to himself to think things over. It's not you, he tries to explain, but you do not want to hear it. The only thing you can think about is, what in the world just happened?

On your way home you are thinking, how can i get my ex boyfriend back?

First, ask yourself this question. Do I really want him back? This is something you must think long and hard about. Deep down inside you want him, but are you really sure?

Take some serious time to think about it. You need to have an clear mind in order to make the right decision.

After you have thought about it and you have decided to fight to keep your man. Take it one step at a time. Ease up and put yourself first, because he is the one who broke up with you. It is not going to be easy, but with the right frame of mind, you can do it.

Here is the way you handle the situation:

1. Do not call him

2. Do not text him

3. Do not try to contact him through his friends or family

4. Do not give him any special treatment

Try as hard as you can to keep your mind off of him. Do something that you enjoy doing by yourself. It is understandable that you may have done a lot with him and for him, but there are still some things you enjoyed doing by yourself.

Waiting for a text message or a phone call is not what you should be doing. Let him come back to you. If that man still loves you he will come back to you and if he does not love you, he won't. When you ask yourself, how can i get my ex boyfriend back? Think before you leap. You do not want to leap out so far that you find it hard for you to return.