Not too long ago I had the unpleasant experience of losing my ex boyfriend and made a lot of mistakes to try and get my ex boyfriend back.
I would like to share my experiences and tell you how to get your ex back without making the same mistakes I did.
When I lost my ex boyfriend I felt lost, frustrated and very heartbroken.
I would have done anything to get my ex boyfriend back.
I did some crazy things like texting him constantly, begging him to take me back, and calling him just to hear his voice.
Of course none of this worked because he felt suffocated by me and instead of getting my ex boyfriend back, I winded up driving him further away from me.
If you want to know how to get your ex back, don't do the things I did to try and get my ex boyfriend back.
Instead, try following these proven steps on how to get your ex back: 1.
Give them some room to miss you.
Absence really does make the heart grow fonder.
When I kept calling and bothering my boyfriend, he didn't have time to miss me because I was always bothering him.
When I backed off and gave him some room to breathe, he wondered what happened to me and actually called me! 2.
Work on improving your life.
Laying around, sulking, doesn't get you anywhere.
When I decided to improve some areas of my life and focus on me, my ex boyfriend took notice and became interested.
3.
Don't be too pushy.
You don't want to push your ex away.
Getting them back may take a little time but if you try to push it, you might lose them all over again.
When they start to want you back, play it cool but not too cool! Just be friendly and enjoy each others company.
Act interested in what he or she has to say and laugh at their dumb jokes.
Don't suffocate them, or try to control them, everyone needs room to breath.