No one bothers to tell you when you first marry that the honeymoon phase doesn't last very long at all.
Once you're thrown into the day-to-day challenges of life, the lustre of being a newlywed can quickly fade away.
Many women take the route of divorce once they realize that their feelings for their spouse have changed.
If you aren't entertaining that thought but you do want to improve the relationship there are things you can do to fancy your husband again.
If you want to fancy your husband again it begins with focusing on his positive attributes and overlooking the negatives.
It's easy to fall into the trap of only looking at the aspect of your husband's personality and behaviour that annoy or irritate you.
Make a strong effort to start each day by embracing the things about your husband that you love and admire.
Also, thank him for what he brings to your life that enhances it.
You'll find that when you put out something positive, you'll get positive things back from him.
One important thing to keep in mind if you want to fancy your husband again is to start treating him more like a romantic partner and less like someone you are raising children with.
We all know that the dynamic of a marriage changes once children enter the relationship.
Both partners' lives change dramatically and it can mean less time with one another.
Quite often the romance is sacrificed so each partner can focus their time, energy and emotions on their children.
If you want to fall back in love with the man you married make time to interact with him alone on a romantic partner level again.
You need to give yourself an opportunity to rediscover what you felt for him early in your relationship.