We may all experience heartbreaks in our lives and sometimes we often feel it is the end of everything, and sometimes we think of desperate moves to win a love one back.
If you and your girl just broke up and you think you have to do what it takes to win your girl back, think again.
Maybe you need a little time for your self to think about everything.
Don't be in a hurry.
Getting back your ex needs a lot of planning, and it does not have to be something that you have to chase.
If the breakup was your fault and you really feel sorry about it, let the situation cool down.
Any move you do right after the breakup might not be of any help.
Have a little introspection.
If you had just broken up with your girl, it may be a good time to spend time alone to think about your relationship - what has changed and what went wrong with it.
If you really think she is the love of your life and you want her back in your life, here are some tips that may help you win your girl back.
* Take responsibility of your mistakes.
If the breakup was your fault and you are sorry about it, try to look at yourself and on how you can correct your shortcomings.
If you are blaming everything on your girlfriend, you may not have truly understood how the relationship was going.
Even the happiest relationships have their own trials, so don't give up on making another try.
* Be honest and sincere.
You can tell her directly about your wanting to make the relationship work for both of you.
Tell her you want her back, ask forgiveness and learn to forgive.
You might not get a good response right then so you can jump on to the next step, and that's giving her time.
* Give her time to think about it.
Give her time to also to grieve.
Breakups are difficult to overcome especially if you are on the receiving end.
Do not be desperate to chase her and shower her with gifts.
Begging or pleading her to come back is not also an effective way to win her back.
* Give her what she wants.
If you try to call her and she would tell you not to call again, give it to her.
If she tells you she does not want to see your face, then you just have to give it to her.
The less she will see of you and hear from you, the more she will become curious about how you have been doing.
It will only take a few weeks to make her miss you especially if your relationship was long.
This will also make it easier for you meet and talk with her.
* Change your bad habits.
Improve yourself.
Although it is not easy to straighten out bad habits, try to overcome the things that are not desirable in your life.
The more determined you are to correct some shortcomings, the more chances that the second chance will succeed.
Of course, it should not just come from you alone, but you can start it with yourself.
* Go on with your life.
Do what you love doing.
Live a good life.
The more impressive you can become after the breakup, the more she would want to give it another chance.
Giving her enough time to think about it would make her realize how much you mean to her.
If she still does not want to have you back, maybe the relationship is meant to end that way and you have to learn to accept.
Letting go of the one you love is indeed very difficult but sometimes you have to give space and time to let them realize your value.
But if you are successful with these simple steps to win your girl back, you will certainly have a great start with the relationship.
If you and your girl just broke up and you think you have to do what it takes to win your girl back, think again.
Maybe you need a little time for your self to think about everything.
Don't be in a hurry.
Getting back your ex needs a lot of planning, and it does not have to be something that you have to chase.
If the breakup was your fault and you really feel sorry about it, let the situation cool down.
Any move you do right after the breakup might not be of any help.
Have a little introspection.
If you had just broken up with your girl, it may be a good time to spend time alone to think about your relationship - what has changed and what went wrong with it.
If you really think she is the love of your life and you want her back in your life, here are some tips that may help you win your girl back.
* Take responsibility of your mistakes.
If the breakup was your fault and you are sorry about it, try to look at yourself and on how you can correct your shortcomings.
If you are blaming everything on your girlfriend, you may not have truly understood how the relationship was going.
Even the happiest relationships have their own trials, so don't give up on making another try.
* Be honest and sincere.
You can tell her directly about your wanting to make the relationship work for both of you.
Tell her you want her back, ask forgiveness and learn to forgive.
You might not get a good response right then so you can jump on to the next step, and that's giving her time.
* Give her time to think about it.
Give her time to also to grieve.
Breakups are difficult to overcome especially if you are on the receiving end.
Do not be desperate to chase her and shower her with gifts.
Begging or pleading her to come back is not also an effective way to win her back.
* Give her what she wants.
If you try to call her and she would tell you not to call again, give it to her.
If she tells you she does not want to see your face, then you just have to give it to her.
The less she will see of you and hear from you, the more she will become curious about how you have been doing.
It will only take a few weeks to make her miss you especially if your relationship was long.
This will also make it easier for you meet and talk with her.
* Change your bad habits.
Improve yourself.
Although it is not easy to straighten out bad habits, try to overcome the things that are not desirable in your life.
The more determined you are to correct some shortcomings, the more chances that the second chance will succeed.
Of course, it should not just come from you alone, but you can start it with yourself.
* Go on with your life.
Do what you love doing.
Live a good life.
The more impressive you can become after the breakup, the more she would want to give it another chance.
Giving her enough time to think about it would make her realize how much you mean to her.
If she still does not want to have you back, maybe the relationship is meant to end that way and you have to learn to accept.
Letting go of the one you love is indeed very difficult but sometimes you have to give space and time to let them realize your value.
But if you are successful with these simple steps to win your girl back, you will certainly have a great start with the relationship.