Has your girlfriend just broken up with you and even though you still love her you feel there's no hope to get her back? This reaction is of course totally normal, but let me ask you this: How many times have you seen couples break up just to make up and get back together again? Probably plenty of times? I can tell you I have! Even if you think there's no chance to get her back, there always is.
Often times, we think it is worse than it actually is, and that's because we panic.
We panic that we will never see her again, and that she will just move on.
Panic is really our enemy at the moment.
Panic means desperation and that's not exactly what we want right now.
Desperation, even though completely normal, is not seen as a positive personality trait, and to get her back, you want to be seen as best as possible in her eyes.
Don't contact her, let her contact you First of all it is important not to contact her.
Yes, you have just split up and you want to tell her how much you love her and how much you still care for her, but this is the wrong time to do it.
After a girl breaks up with a guy, she usually questions herself and her decision.
She isn't sure anymore whether it was the right decision or not.
Give her time to sort out her feelings for you, and if you do it right she will soon realize that she misses you and that is was wrong to break up with you.
If you contact her now, you are not really giving her a chance to miss you and she might then wrongly assume that this means it was the correct decision to split up.
After all, she doesn't even miss you.
Give her time Give her about 2 to 3 weeks to sort herself out.
If you meet her somewhere, don't ignore her.
This is important! You don't want to give her the impression you are angry or want to get back at her.
Simply say hello and try to stay out of any deep conversations.
Don't confess your deep love, there is a time and place for this, but it's not there and then.