Most of us have been through a break-up onetime or another in our lives, so it is, heaving a longing breath it's understood we must move on.
[For, ah is me! my love is...]
Now what if? What if you're not willing to wallow, licking your wounds as you limp in to the sunset? You want your ex back! Yeah and you're ready to do what it takes to make it happen. Cool but a difficult choice though, no? Mmm.
The truth of the matter is that a good proportion of all break-ups can be reengineered... That's if you understand and implement the right steps you need to, in order to win back your ex. We'll come to those in just a jiffy...Important first however to draw your attention to some cool and relevant resources 'down' at the bottom of this article. Probably the most informative of all the sites I've found which present a step-by-step, easy to follow formula for getting back together. Have a look, when you investigate, you'll thank me".)
Right, let's move on to some things you can use now (tips if you like...)
Well the biggie here is: what on earth was the cause of the break up in the first place? If you know that, it's a mega starting point. Learning how to get back together with your ex is part determining why exactly the break-up occurred. Currently time travel is not available so you can't fix the past but you can learn from it. Reengineer yourself, grow new neural pathways and revitalize your relationship muscles.
The big snap, the snowballing clincher probably occurred because of one specific incident, or more likely progressive - from a behaviour that your ex just couldn't stomach anymore. As mentioned already the whys and wherefores of the break-up need to be understood so you can learn how to deal with the situation later on. The reference sites below give some good ideas in this respect giving an outline plan that will get your ex back. Nija, first gear move is to agree to the break-up. Because this time you want the relationship to work, right? Okay number one bit out of the way.
Okay second gear, engine whines... I need! You need food, water and shelter, that's it bucko. So ensure that you don't make yourself appear needy. Yeah I know there's that overriding desire that everyone has to express that they can't live without their ex... but you just don't get any brownie points for that, full stop. So stay frosty, focused and strong, make it oh so very clear to your ex that you rock by yourself. Important too, show people around you that your self confidence is solid, untarnished and you're content with yourself. You know needy or desperate only push people away, the ex is no different, no wait... it's even more accentuated! Confidence is a magnet, maintenance of it is crucial, let them come right back to you.
So second gear will get you up that hill and it's one of the pivotal points you'll grasp visiting the sites mentioned below. More importantly you'll find out exactly how to be and what to say. Your self-reliance is key to the dawning idea in your ex's head that they could have made a big mistake, this is very powerful stuff!
Into third gear and you're gaining velocity but whatever you do, don't try to make your ex jealous, that is about one of the worst things you can do if you are intent on getting your ex back. Remember you've reengineered, moved on, different configuration, best thing since sliced bread etc. The killer here is your ex may well be seeing someone else, easy does it now, you can't stop that whatever you do - but you, your persona can effect change indirectly. A sure positive outward self can only bring a reaction that wants to return in the same manner. A dialogue flows naturally from this and of course from your ex.
Setting up a meeting to talk with your ex is the best way to sort out the problems the two of you face. Use the guidelines given in the links below and you won't feel like your flying solo so much, they are there to help you.
Being prepared is the watchword here, as it always is in any important scene shifting situation. If all the bases are covered when you meet your ex it will add to you sense of well being, but if you wing it with such high stakes at risk you may just make matters worse and close the door forever.
Getting back with an ex is exactly like rocket science, you are required to think ahead, everything must be gauged, calculated and in its place, the best place, for the best chance. A mature and organised approach will give both of you a space to work with and a framework..
Reengineer yourself, move to the plane of change and plan things as outlined on the sites below - be equipped and prepared for the journey ahead.
Good luck!
[For, ah is me! my love is...]
Now what if? What if you're not willing to wallow, licking your wounds as you limp in to the sunset? You want your ex back! Yeah and you're ready to do what it takes to make it happen. Cool but a difficult choice though, no? Mmm.
The truth of the matter is that a good proportion of all break-ups can be reengineered... That's if you understand and implement the right steps you need to, in order to win back your ex. We'll come to those in just a jiffy...Important first however to draw your attention to some cool and relevant resources 'down' at the bottom of this article. Probably the most informative of all the sites I've found which present a step-by-step, easy to follow formula for getting back together. Have a look, when you investigate, you'll thank me".)
Right, let's move on to some things you can use now (tips if you like...)
Well the biggie here is: what on earth was the cause of the break up in the first place? If you know that, it's a mega starting point. Learning how to get back together with your ex is part determining why exactly the break-up occurred. Currently time travel is not available so you can't fix the past but you can learn from it. Reengineer yourself, grow new neural pathways and revitalize your relationship muscles.
The big snap, the snowballing clincher probably occurred because of one specific incident, or more likely progressive - from a behaviour that your ex just couldn't stomach anymore. As mentioned already the whys and wherefores of the break-up need to be understood so you can learn how to deal with the situation later on. The reference sites below give some good ideas in this respect giving an outline plan that will get your ex back. Nija, first gear move is to agree to the break-up. Because this time you want the relationship to work, right? Okay number one bit out of the way.
Okay second gear, engine whines... I need! You need food, water and shelter, that's it bucko. So ensure that you don't make yourself appear needy. Yeah I know there's that overriding desire that everyone has to express that they can't live without their ex... but you just don't get any brownie points for that, full stop. So stay frosty, focused and strong, make it oh so very clear to your ex that you rock by yourself. Important too, show people around you that your self confidence is solid, untarnished and you're content with yourself. You know needy or desperate only push people away, the ex is no different, no wait... it's even more accentuated! Confidence is a magnet, maintenance of it is crucial, let them come right back to you.
So second gear will get you up that hill and it's one of the pivotal points you'll grasp visiting the sites mentioned below. More importantly you'll find out exactly how to be and what to say. Your self-reliance is key to the dawning idea in your ex's head that they could have made a big mistake, this is very powerful stuff!
Into third gear and you're gaining velocity but whatever you do, don't try to make your ex jealous, that is about one of the worst things you can do if you are intent on getting your ex back. Remember you've reengineered, moved on, different configuration, best thing since sliced bread etc. The killer here is your ex may well be seeing someone else, easy does it now, you can't stop that whatever you do - but you, your persona can effect change indirectly. A sure positive outward self can only bring a reaction that wants to return in the same manner. A dialogue flows naturally from this and of course from your ex.
Setting up a meeting to talk with your ex is the best way to sort out the problems the two of you face. Use the guidelines given in the links below and you won't feel like your flying solo so much, they are there to help you.
Being prepared is the watchword here, as it always is in any important scene shifting situation. If all the bases are covered when you meet your ex it will add to you sense of well being, but if you wing it with such high stakes at risk you may just make matters worse and close the door forever.
Getting back with an ex is exactly like rocket science, you are required to think ahead, everything must be gauged, calculated and in its place, the best place, for the best chance. A mature and organised approach will give both of you a space to work with and a framework..
Reengineer yourself, move to the plane of change and plan things as outlined on the sites below - be equipped and prepared for the journey ahead.
Good luck!