If you are trying to figure out how to win my ex back, here are a few important points to keep in mind.
First, it is very possible to get back with your ex.
You just need a plan, a little patience, and a true and abiding love for your lady or man.
The key to surviving breakups is to focus on the big picture, not the details.
Oddly enough, you should not concentrate on the problems that drove the two of you apart.
At least not at first.
The very first thing you need is some intensity and passion.
You need to show your ex that the flame of love still burns brightly in your breast, and is actually consuming you! Do not be shy to proclaim proudly that he/she still makes your heart go pitter-patter in double time, whenever you think of her.
Which is constantly, of course.
Passion, energy, intensity, desire, call it what you like.
We all want to spot it in our mates.
We are drawn to it inexorably, like moths to a flame.
So let your ex see it.
He does not want to know why it would be logical for the two of you to get back together.
He wants to know that you cannot live without him! Surviving breakups requires the same level of fervor and excitement (or more) as when the two of you were dating.
It is an irresistible magnetic force that will pull the two of you back together.
Now, I am not saying that you should ignore your problems, or sweep them under the rug.
Far from it.
Once that spark has been reignited between you, it is time to discuss your problems.
And then you may notice a funny thing.
A short, romantic dinner or stroll along the river will go a long way toward healing your relationship.
Why? Because that spark you just set off will put things into perspective, and make your arguments seem small and inconsequential.
Suddenly, your problems seem much more manageable.
Your love and attraction are what is important, not the problems.
So do not overanalyze the difficulties and rough patches in your relationship.
You both must find solutions and compromises, of course.
But this task will be much easier if you focus on the big picture.
Surviving breakups requires that you reconnect with your ex.
The fastest way to rebuild that bridge between you is by showing her your true love and ardor, and enthusiasm.
If there is no passion or spark between you, then your problems will seem much bigger, and perhaps insurmountable.
The two of you may not even be motivated to try and repair the relationship.
What for, if there is no love and oomph between you? Focus instead on the overall relationship, keep your passion in front of you, and surviving breakups will rapidly become much easier!
First, it is very possible to get back with your ex.
You just need a plan, a little patience, and a true and abiding love for your lady or man.
The key to surviving breakups is to focus on the big picture, not the details.
Oddly enough, you should not concentrate on the problems that drove the two of you apart.
At least not at first.
The very first thing you need is some intensity and passion.
You need to show your ex that the flame of love still burns brightly in your breast, and is actually consuming you! Do not be shy to proclaim proudly that he/she still makes your heart go pitter-patter in double time, whenever you think of her.
Which is constantly, of course.
Passion, energy, intensity, desire, call it what you like.
We all want to spot it in our mates.
We are drawn to it inexorably, like moths to a flame.
So let your ex see it.
He does not want to know why it would be logical for the two of you to get back together.
He wants to know that you cannot live without him! Surviving breakups requires the same level of fervor and excitement (or more) as when the two of you were dating.
It is an irresistible magnetic force that will pull the two of you back together.
Now, I am not saying that you should ignore your problems, or sweep them under the rug.
Far from it.
Once that spark has been reignited between you, it is time to discuss your problems.
And then you may notice a funny thing.
A short, romantic dinner or stroll along the river will go a long way toward healing your relationship.
Why? Because that spark you just set off will put things into perspective, and make your arguments seem small and inconsequential.
Suddenly, your problems seem much more manageable.
Your love and attraction are what is important, not the problems.
So do not overanalyze the difficulties and rough patches in your relationship.
You both must find solutions and compromises, of course.
But this task will be much easier if you focus on the big picture.
Surviving breakups requires that you reconnect with your ex.
The fastest way to rebuild that bridge between you is by showing her your true love and ardor, and enthusiasm.
If there is no passion or spark between you, then your problems will seem much bigger, and perhaps insurmountable.
The two of you may not even be motivated to try and repair the relationship.
What for, if there is no love and oomph between you? Focus instead on the overall relationship, keep your passion in front of you, and surviving breakups will rapidly become much easier!