Have you recently gone through a painful breakup with your boyfriend or husband and are now wondering if there is a way to save the relationship? If you want to learn how to win him back it's important that you understand that you have more power to change your situation than you may realize.
Just don't rush into trying to win your ex back without having a plan or else you'll end up pushing him away.
The good news is that with a little guidance you have a good chance of turning things around and getting your ex back in your arms.
First, let's go over what NOT to do...
Don't push too hard to win him back.
Yes, I understand that you're hurting and anxious to get back together.
But these anxious feelings can cause you to behave in ways that may come across as desperate and needy.
Are you calling him all the time? Are you constantly emailing or texting him? Are you trying to talk him into taking you back? Are you apologizing for everything? Are you promising to change if only he gives you a second chance? You get the idea.
These behaviors will only push him farther away.
It's human nature for a guy to pull away if he feels pressured.
In order to win him back, you'll going to have to give him some space for a while.
Allow him some time to miss you.
How can he miss you if you're always after him? Taking a break from the relationship also gives you a chance to work on building up your independence and inner strength.
Take some time to work on improving yourself and do things that make you happy.
Pamper yourself a little, spend time with friends and family you've been neglecting, etc.
After a while your ex will start to wonder why you're not chasing him any more.
He will no longer feel any pressure coming from you and this should cause him to start missing you.
He will be much more open to getting back together.
Just like putting pressure on him will drive him away, the opposite is also true.
Backing off tends to draw him towards you.
Most people are like this...
again, it's basic human nature.
By working with his basic human nature, you can set the stage for a successful reunion.
You'll need to do more than just give him some space, but this is a very good first step in the right direction.