It is natural, and even expected, to feel completely bummed and pretty hopeless right after a breakup - especially if you are still in love with your ex.
You want to do whatever you can to get your ex to fall in love with you again, but you aren't sure how to make it happen.
The advice, while easier said than done - for sure, is truly simple and highly effective.
There are two ways you can handle this breakup - you can throw yourself a pity party and fall into a deep pit of despair, or you can try to make the best of the situation, keep things positive, and work to get yourself to a place where you can be a better partner and one who your ex will WANT to come back to.
Though it is difficult, it is best to accept the breakup - it is temporary, and it does hurt - as this is the best path to get your ex to fall in love with you again.
Trying everything you can think to do to get your ex to come back to you right after a breakup might be what our heart is telling us to do, but it is the most likely road to sabotage there is.
Your ex is angry and attempts to contact him or her right now are only going to make them feel pressured, and thus more angry.
To get your ex to fall in love with you again, you must allow them some time and space to get passed the negative emotions caused by the breakup.
It is best to give each other plenty of space and this allows you the opportunity to evaluate the relationship to try to determine what went wrong.
What things about you changed and how can you, in general make yourself a better person, inside and out? Not only will focusing on self-improvement help get your ex to fall for you again, it will boost your self esteem, and help you pass the time without your ex.
Before you know it, your ex will miss you and try to make contact, and you'll be able to wow them with the new and very improved you!