What men want in a woman is someone who is aware about what they are thinking about.
Again, I am making generalizations, but in general, women do tend to get carried away thinking about things that either makes them paranoid, insecure, scared or unsure of themselves or their husbands.
This can all eventuate from the slightest passing comment from the man or from nothing at all.
If you think about what you're thinking about, you can avert a potential emotional meltdown, which your man will be thankful for.
Here are three ways to get used to thinking about thinking.
1.
Pretend to be a fly on the wall Ever hear the saying, "to be a fly on the wall?" Well, you can be, right now.
You're reading this article, right now.
Pick a point in the room that you're sitting in right now and pretend that you're a fly standing on the wall looking at you reading this article.
Try to see everything.
See your eyes moving left to right.
See your head moving slightly to the side, see yourself looking around.
By seeing all this, you get used being more self-aware.
2.
Your cravings/addictions One of the easiest ways to practice thinking about thinking is to do it when you're not feeling emotional or upset.
Do this when you're passing by a bakery and the beautiful smell of fresh bread wafts out.
You feel yourself being pulled inside, but if you can take that feeling "isolate" it from the rest of yourself, you actually begin to realize that it's something you can control.
3.
The real thing This is where it gets hard.
If you can actually do what you do for a bakery but for a real life emotional situation instead, you know that you're getting good at thinking about what you're thinking about.
Feel the anger, but don't let it control you.
Feel the sadness and appreciate that without it, you wouldn't be as happy.
Feel the happiness and let it seep into every cell of your body.
Every emotion has a purpose; it's not good enough to just be happy, or just sad.
Feel every emotion and appreciate that it builds you to be stronger than ever before.
What men want in a woman is someone who understands that they have complete control of their emotions.
Women who understand that being ruled by their emotions is an indulgence won't get as much love as women who see emotional control as a skill they could master.
Again, I am making generalizations, but in general, women do tend to get carried away thinking about things that either makes them paranoid, insecure, scared or unsure of themselves or their husbands.
This can all eventuate from the slightest passing comment from the man or from nothing at all.
If you think about what you're thinking about, you can avert a potential emotional meltdown, which your man will be thankful for.
Here are three ways to get used to thinking about thinking.
1.
Pretend to be a fly on the wall Ever hear the saying, "to be a fly on the wall?" Well, you can be, right now.
You're reading this article, right now.
Pick a point in the room that you're sitting in right now and pretend that you're a fly standing on the wall looking at you reading this article.
Try to see everything.
See your eyes moving left to right.
See your head moving slightly to the side, see yourself looking around.
By seeing all this, you get used being more self-aware.
2.
Your cravings/addictions One of the easiest ways to practice thinking about thinking is to do it when you're not feeling emotional or upset.
Do this when you're passing by a bakery and the beautiful smell of fresh bread wafts out.
You feel yourself being pulled inside, but if you can take that feeling "isolate" it from the rest of yourself, you actually begin to realize that it's something you can control.
3.
The real thing This is where it gets hard.
If you can actually do what you do for a bakery but for a real life emotional situation instead, you know that you're getting good at thinking about what you're thinking about.
Feel the anger, but don't let it control you.
Feel the sadness and appreciate that without it, you wouldn't be as happy.
Feel the happiness and let it seep into every cell of your body.
Every emotion has a purpose; it's not good enough to just be happy, or just sad.
Feel every emotion and appreciate that it builds you to be stronger than ever before.
What men want in a woman is someone who understands that they have complete control of their emotions.
Women who understand that being ruled by their emotions is an indulgence won't get as much love as women who see emotional control as a skill they could master.