Good friends help us express our true selves and find our path in life. They hold up a mirror that shows us who we truly are and they encourage us to be more than we think we can be! And when women find a safe harbor in friendship with others, it also helps us connect to the power of our feminine spirit in a profound and deeply life enhancing way.

A Gathering of Goddesses

In the nineties, when I was the editor-in-chief of a national magazine, I invited a group of girl friends who worked in media together for a night of spirituality and girl talk.

They were each fascinating, spiritual woman with high-powered careers. It felt very natural to call the evening A Gathering of Goddesses. Everyone loved the idea, because it made us connect immediately with the idea that we are Goddesses - beautiful, smart, powerful, able to effect change in our world. We so enjoyed each other's companionship and support that first night; we decided to turn it into a monthly event. For over two years, we gathered every month to schmooze and share our stories, ending each meeting with a sacred circle in which we each took turns lighting a candle, articulating our dreams and goals and saying a prayer. We would bear witness to one another's most pressing goals in life, and we would share the vision that all these dreams would come true. Indeed, many of them did.

Media Goddesses

Because we were journalists, radio personalities, performers, TV spokespeople and authors, I nick-named the group Media Goddesses. It was in the course of facilitating these gatherings that I discovered my new calling as an interfaith minister, and I stepped onto a professional path of facilitating women's spiritual evolution.

Having the chance to gather with other women in a loving and mutually supportive way changed all of our lives. We grew and empowered each other to grow more, and, six years later, we continue to share a lasting bond. We still love to get together and, although meetings are less frequent, they are no less sacred and meaningful.

Girlfriend Goddesses

When I began calling my fabulous female friends "goddesses" I never thought twice about there being an "actual" Goddess; and I knew nothing about goddess history. Yet the experience moved me to study and seek more information. I was amazed to find that in addition to goddesses of ancient times, there are so many cultures that actually continue to worship the feminine divine; and that the language of the feminine was hidden between the lines of traditional religion.

Empowered Women

I began to see that viewing divinity as both masculine and feminine empowered women's self esteem -- we could see ourselves mirrored in the image of the Divine because there was a She that looked like us. And also, even though many of us were fairly assertive, hard working professional women who obviously called on both male and female energies to do our work in the world, there was so much inspiration stirred up in our little group I truly did feel we were connecting to a greater source and I interpreted that source as a divinely feminine spirit.

Celebrating the Goddess Within

My goddess friends brought the Divine Feminine to life for me. I learned to see the goddess in me because I was seeing it so clearly in the women I love and admire. I believe that celebrating the goddess in each other helped us all connect to the feminine power within. We were so empowered by the mutual support and spirit of the group that we all came to express ourselves more authentically and to bring that energy out into the world in our daily lives and our work in media.

Having a special group of Goddesses in human form in my life made all the difference on my life journey. My media goddess sisters have been spiritual cheerleaders. They've continually reminded me of who I am. In our connection with one another, we have been privileged to share a scared bond that has helped us all do our part to bring healing to the world.

I made a declaration at one of our meetings that I would dedicate myself to empowering women to get to know the goddess within them, and inspire women to gather together in sacred circles to help change their lives, and do their part in changing the world. That dream began to truly reach fruition when my book A Goddess Is A Girl's Best Friend was published. At the book party (at The Muse Hotel in New York, no less!), my goddess group was there, cheering me on and helping to make the evening a divine success.

If there is any time in history that women, and our world, can benefit from gathering, it is now. Whether sharing a meal and some girl talk, a night out, or coming together to pray for peace, life will change in leaps and bounds the first day you call a bunch of friends together for "a gathering of goddesses."